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I know this is coming from out of "nowhere" and I haven't been on here in a while......but I am throwing in the towel,

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raising the white flag of surrender, and with my tail between my legs.....I AM LEAVING.

Actually, let me re-phrase that:

With my head held high, with grace, poise, and dignity (outside appearances only), I AM LEAVING.

On the inside, I feel all the things I listed above.

I just got so very sad yesterday..............

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I planned for SD10's Valentine's Day Party at the school for two weeks. I sent out letters to all the parents asking for donations and I had a great turnout. I baked and decorated the cutest cupcakes, bought decorations, planned a Valentine Bingo game, bought the cups, plates, napkins, and goodie bags. I arrive at the school, go to SD10's classroom and I see on the table we use for all the food - two big containers of cupcakes.

Caught by Rusty...............BWAWHAHAHAHAHAHA!

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Yesterday, BM calls about mid-morning to say that her father will pick up the skids around 3 because she is at work and because our driveway was still impassable because of snow. The skids were off for a snow day and Wednesday is BM's day. The skids did not tell us that BM was at work, all they said was that Papaw was coming to get them at 3.

Telling BM tomorrow about us seeing a lawyer and going for full custody......I'm a little nervous.

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FH is going to tell BM tomorrow about us seeing a lawyer and he's going to tell her that we're sure we will win full custody since BM's second DUI a couple weeks ago.

He's going to tell her that she can fight us on this and he will seek full custody with little to no visitation and make her pay child support OR she can agree to us having full custody and we will bring the skids to see her and bring them back home basically whenever she wants......and she will not have to pay any child support.

Update to my blog regarding SD10's soccer game today and BM's irresponsibility...........

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BM brought over SD10's uniform last night. FH and I were out to dinner with friends and we left all kids at home. We got home pretty late and saw the soccer stuff on the table. The skids told us their mom dropped it off around 7:00 pm.

Let's just see how all this plays out...............

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BM signed SD10 up for soccer.......HER decision, no discussion with us at all. BM got pissed that we are making her pay the WHOLE $60 for this - ha, go figure. (we paid $140 for softball)

So this past Saturday was the first game. I had been asking for a copy of the schedule since last Monday. I heard every time I asked "mommy forgot, she will give us one tomorrow". I quit asking after Thursday. Sometimes I think BM will purposely not give me the things I ask for just to get on my nerves, so I will NOT ask for another schedule.

So very PROUD of FH today!

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We went to SD10's soccer game and after the game BM came up to him and told him she needed his half of the money for SD10's soccer. FH was prepared for this even though he told her that he would agree to pay for BOTH girls to play softball ($140.00) IF she paid for SD10's soccer ($60). This conversation happened last fall.

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