Update to my blog regarding SD10's soccer game today and BM's irresponsibility...........
BM brought over SD10's uniform last night. FH and I were out to dinner with friends and we left all kids at home. We got home pretty late and saw the soccer stuff on the table. The skids told us their mom dropped it off around 7:00 pm.
This morning SD10 goes to put her soccer stuff on and realizes that it hadn't been washed. We didn't have to time to wash it before we left. The uniform is now in the washing machine because the socks were REEKING!! And also, we would never send the uniform home with her UNWASHED! BM had the uniform since last Saturday and it wasn't washed. THEN BM calls SD10 this morning to tell her that she wouldn't be able to make it to her soccer game because she was going shopping for new carpet. BM has NEVER missed a game before, so this was really weird. I heard SD10 ask her mom why she couldn't just go shopping after her game and I don't know what BM said. We think this is weird. We're wondering if BM got into some trouble last night or something.........she's all ready had one DUI and if she gets another one, we could get custody because of her losing her driving privaleges. I went by BM's two favorite bars on my way home from a baby shower and her car wasn't at either one. This is really unusual.
Also, on our way to the game, the skids mentioned how the other morning when they had a snow delay, some man came to the house and their mom made the girls stay in their room and watch a movie. They weren't allowed to come out while this man was there. She told the girls she had to talk to the man about getting her electric bill lowered?????? This is weird. We're a little concerned about this. The skids never saw the man so no description was given.
Anyway, that's the update ladies.
Oh and p.s. - I asked the coach for a schedule and he's sending one to school with his daughter who will give it to SD10. I just hope SD10 doesn't take it to her mom's, because I'm sure BM will keep it from us. What a pain in the ass.
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Uh... that's really strange.
Uh... that's really strange. I think this situation warrants further investigation. I don't know if you live somewhere where you can find arrest records online but it might be worth doing a search, as well as a search for property records where you can see if there have been any liens issued on her property (if she owns one).
"There are two things over which you have complete dominion, authority, and control over - your mind and your mouth".
Yea, we'll see what happens
Yea, we'll see what happens when it's time to take the skids home tomorrow. If BM says something's wrong with her car or tries to give us some excuse that she won't be able to get the skids to school.........(she doesn't live in our district.), then I'll do a search online. That's how I found out about her first DUI.
Also, Tuesdays are the days when BM goes into work late. So she takes the skids to school and then goes back home. One of the trashy guys she is sleeping with right now is living out of a motel most nights and we think maybe he stopped over that morning. He doesn't have a phone at all, so she wouldn't have been able to tell him that the skids had a snow delay. We know he was going over there to shower when the girls aren't there. The girls have never met him. And he's a very scary looking guy. Very "wolfman" like. We don't care who's there when the girls aren't there, but when they're there.....we're definitely concerned. We think the whole "lowering the electric bill" was bogus.
**my stepdaughters did not grow in my tummy, they grew in my heart**