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Daughter got married , Lifes been busy !

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Hi friends,
Well it's been a while since i posted. Lot's of things have accured. My youngest Got married in March, she is now a legal step mother to a 10 yr old daughter. The BM actually gave up custody and even gave that months CS back to the dad "Amazing". They're NOT asking the BM for anything(including cs), they would rather just have the child and no complications. I told my daughter I still think BM should pay something.

Friendship !!

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Friendship comes in many shapes and sizes......so do woman's shoes.

Women wear dress shoes, casual shoes, and of course the slippers.
Dress shoes - High Heels look great when you are all dressed up, and ready for a special occasions and you are all excited. You are happy , but as the evening moves on, your old feet get tired / By the time the evening is over and you get home, you just can't wait to put those shoes back in the closet. The old feet hurt some, well not some, they hurt a lot if dancing was part of your evening and it is usually in mine..

EXWIFE #2 CALLED & DAUGHTER..!!

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Well FH took me today for my first exam, spine, post op..I did very well..Dr's said,they were successfulin fixing the problems in my spine. They cleared out all the dead,,ruptured discs and built up arthritis, and scar tissue from previous surgery 24 years ago.
My pain level has decreased now down to 4 and feeling so much beter. But I still have to wear the brace for 12-16 weeks yet and NOT do anything.(sigh)

COMMUNICATING AND GETTING WHAT YOU NEED OR WANT LADIES

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BOTH PEOPLE IN A RELATIONSHIP NEED TO COMMUNICATE & LEARN TO COMPROMISE FOR CERTAIN THINGS.
FOR THOSE FEELING NEGLECTED OR LONELY..AND I SEE ALOT OF THIS ON ST....HERE'S SOMEWAYS TO CHAMGE THAT....
I WOULD SET A SIDE A SPECIAL TIME TO TALK AND MAKE A SCHEDULE FOR DATES AND TIME FOR INTIMACY.
2 DATE NIGHTS A MONTH( HE TAKES YOU WHERE EVER YOU WANT ) IN EXCHANGE FOR GOURMET( NO INTERRUPTIONS) SEX 2 X A MONTH.(FAIR DEAL)

MOST MEN WOULD PREFER TO HAVE SEX AS OFTEN AS HE CAN GET IT.

Feeling Good since surgery, AMAZING SD

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Just a UPDATE. I had major back surgery and I am starting to feel so much better. My New StepD Youngest one (I hate the word step and only use it here) She arrived Friday, Dinner time, she lives about 4 hours west of us in another State. She offered and came to help take care of me. She even brought Dinner along with her for the three of us. (Chinese)

OFF subject.; Surgery Please read

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Hi everyone
I had back surgery this week and will be laid up for weeks in a back brace and then several weeks of PT afterwards.
FH is working, just started back teaching, and I am spending a lot of time on ST reading, gives me something to do besides go crazy here in the hospital., I will be going home Tomorrow.YIPPY. I will have nurses coming in a few times a week and a cna to help me...just wished one of the kids were here ( they all live hours away)..since FH works and I wil be alone most of the day time hours.

Update on Adult steps and My children since Meeting!

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Well..all seems to be going ok so far. I know there's been some talk between the AdultSteps. SD30- she is the ring leader, and the one who gossips the most. She was hoping , even after 14 yrs that FH and EXW (her mom, BM of daughters) would get back together,since BioMom, has gone through detox (again) 4th time.
FH told her 'NO' that would never happen and not to bring it Up again.:-)
I haven't met her (EXW), but FH thinks will get along well!!

Christmas Surprise went GREAT ! Better then expected!!!

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Well, the kids all arrived Dec 24 and left the 27th.
All were very kind and nice to me. They were quite interested in My life of course and my children, grands, educations etc etc. My hobbies & business etc. How lomg I've been a widow, questions about MY likes & dislikes..just general conversations NOTHING to prying YET LOL