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I just felt like, one more time, to say how scummy harpi is. (if you can tell, I am calling her harpi, not evil harpi bitch, because, I haven't had to deal with her today. Just yesterday. And that pissed me off, but I can NEVER let her no she pisses me off. Stupid evil ugly nasty dumb harpi.HARPI HO!!!!! (my sister calls her harpi ho. Got a nice ring to it, you think?????)
Have you ever reported someone of fraud? (For public aid) I have everything I need to do it, but did anyone really do it before? Would she have to pay back all the money she tricked the state out of? I forgot to ask my lawyer, and he charges me $50 for every 30 min. we are on the phone. If you all couldn't tell, I am a 'jabber jaw'. Just if you no, please tell me....just wondering.....
I want to report the harpi. She is cheating on her public aid and I can prove it. I want to turn her in. She claims her 2 other kids, not from my s.2.b., live with her. They don't. I talked to a lawyer today, he said the school records will prove it, and the state will pull the records if reported.....should I do it? She doesn't use the money on the 2, or I wouldn't do this. She has asked us to let her put our food on her link card, then give her cash. We said no f-ing way, and she claims to do it all the time. What should I do? My lawyer told me to do it, should I?
WHAT A BITCH!!! So, she just started getting money for the kids, court ended yesterday. So she tells s.2.b. that they are going on a family vacation to the WI dells for christmas break. F#CK HER!!!!! Going with his money. Stupid Harpi Bitch. And she acts like SHE is taking them. SHE CAN"T WORK!!!!! It is like a dissorder with her. After, at the MOST 7 months, she 'gets fired for NO REASON' and can't find another job for like, 8 months. For the most part, the jobs last 3 months. On Avrg. I did get to be a witness to the 1 1/2 day job. That was great.
So here is my rant:
*BM calls husband constantly for stupid s*&t all the time, seriously constantly, last week it was about SS not wearing the shoes she wanted him to wear, come on now SS is in the 5th grade, he can dress himself if he wants to wear certain shoes let him.
*SS comes home from BM's, DH finds out he did not go to school friday because BM had to work, so she left him at home all by himself. WTF?
Hubby and I have been married for 3yrs together for 6yrs. I havea son with my x and a daughter with my hubby. We also have 3 step kids together. the youngest 5, bm and I get along no problems. The oldest 17 & 15 bm gives me hell. BM gave sd and ss to hubby whn they were babies. Dropped them off with his granmothe and a trash bag full of clothes and said he could have them. Just never ask for support, they were never married. The kids were 9 and 11 when I moved in my son was 5 the other ss was a baby.
If you read my post yesterday you know all about BM's G-ma trying to pick up SD and DH and I not being able to reach BM to see what's up. So She just shows up early this morning, ringing our doorbell repeatedly. As soon as DH opened the door she started in on him about how her G-ma has every right to pick up SD, talking a hundred miles a minute.
Hi, I've been feeling, well, not so great for awhile. I'm wondering if it is hormonal. I've had two miscarriages in the last 6 months. The last one was in August and I was 12 weeks along. I'm gaining a lot of weight and I think I might be depressed. Not sure really. I haven't talked about the losses too much except once in awhile as a point of reference in time. I'm finding that I am not very strong these days and I cry easily. Do any of you have experience with miscarriages and how it affects you long term, emotionally and physically.
I just realized I should probably let some of you know that there's still no baby yet 
I have had the conversation with DH about his kids not needing to be there until well after Isaac (the new baby) is born. I actually talked to my SD13 about it too, asking if she wanted to be there (b/c she was the only one I was comfortable with just being in the waiting room) and she said she'd just rather wait at home and then show up with the baby there.
well as usual hoildays time with sd-6 is all fun and games yet this time her behaviour has dramaticly improved and shes actually trying to follow our rules so i would have to say we have gone from a 2/10 of last hoildays through to a 7/10 no fooling.