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jenniferlynn's picture

I just felt like, one more time, to say how scummy harpi is. (if you can tell, I am calling her harpi, not evil harpi bitch, because, I haven't had to deal with her today. Just yesterday. And that pissed me off, but I can NEVER let her no she pisses me off. Stupid evil ugly nasty dumb harpi.HARPI HO!!!!! (my sister calls her harpi ho. Got a nice ring to it, you think?????)


Sasha's picture

...a little overly obsessed with this woman. That is not going to do you or your soon to be any good if you two are going to be married in the future. Sometimes it is what it is and there is nothing anyone can do about it. You will be doing yourself a big favor if you just come to the realization that BM or harpi or whatever you choose to call her is going to do whatever she wants and there is nothing you can do to stop her. In the end she will suffer the consequences of her choices, but in the meantime you should try to learn to disengage from the will save yourself a lot of hassle in the long run. Take it from someone who knows...if you stick your foot in this, you will be the one smelling like sh**.

And I certainly hope you don't call her these names in front of her kids.

kathleen's picture

I'm with Sasha, But please don't take offense. You are in the right place. There are women on this site, who have had a lot of experience, not just step-parenting, but in life. They may be older, and "wiser" and this is just the place for you to vent, learn, and grow. So go ahead, put it out there, and listen.....

Catch22's picture

But obviously I agree with all the above. There are days when we all crack and call the BM a stupid Ho, but I must say it's after they do something really nasty to us or the skids and once you get used to her doing that daily, it kinda loses its steam after a while. I also think you are coming across as obsessed about this woman. Don't get me wrong either as this is place to vent and loads of people on here can help you but the constant put downs and BM hating in your posts are probably a little crude to come in with 3 posts a day of the same Harpi, Harpi, Harpi thing. Focus on S2B Hubby and skids or kids and forget her, hate will take hold of you and ruin your world instead of hers.

Catch xx
*Mean People Suck*

str8_trippin's picture

Allowing YOURSELF to be this obsessed with this harpie or whatever cannot be a good thing. For anyone. Yes it is frustrating watching these women ruin lives and abuse systems, etc. However becoming to enmeshed with something you have ABSOLUTELY no control over is toxic. It will start to overflow into every aspect of your life, and inevitabley you become what you profess to hate soooo much....(By sinking to her level) We all gotta vent sometime, but repeatedly and obsessively is unhealthy. I hope you can find some peace in this situation. Try a little tolerance or forgiveness-I believe ultimately as our roles in this whole stepmother paradigm, we are meant to master these attributes... Overcoming the hatred is a very empowering thing! You are no longer cotrolled by that person. Yes you are allowing her to control you, whether you realize it or not! -RISE ABOVE IT! Get it outta your system and move on. I'm not trying to disrespect- I just tell it like I sees it.

"All that we are is a result of what we have thought."- Buddha