I don't like one of my stepdaughters. She is only six years old, but I have trouble even liking her. When her father and I started dating fours years ago, we got along great. I find her to be completely irritating now. She lives with her mother, who I absolutely cannot stand in any way, shape, or form. She is completely spoiled by everyone, gets everything she wants, and thinks she is just the cutest thing.

Recently BM finally found a guy she hangs out with and now she is starting to abandon her children like not being there when I drop the kids off so that she'll get one more night with this new guy. I feel like a slave until one day I said to her that since she primary custodial parent it's her responsibility to find a babysitter but she says she's too poor but she won't go to work or skip out on work. She is getting a huge amount of money from us and now she is treating me like a slave.

Okay here is my story. DH and I have been together for about 8 years, married 6. He has 1 son 18 and 1 daughter 15. We also have a daughter 6 together, and I have 3 Bio daughters ages 22, 18,16. When I came into the picture SS and SD where living with BB. When I moved here they where at our house practically everyday. He would pick them up from school and they would come over eat dinner, do homework and sometimes even get their baths then he would take them home. We were supposed to get the EOW but they would be here every weekend. DH was paying CS $600.00 monthly.

BM finally got a man!!! She has been saying that she had one months ago but we knew they she didn't because she was so worried about what we are doing. When we dropped off ss on Sunday we saw him through the window. I am not sure how long this will last( can't see anything wanting to be with such a control freak) but my question is do you think that now that she has a man she will stop all of her BS atleast for a while. I ask this because she has made comments to DH before about that another man is going to take his place as ss father.