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A lil hurt

FavSM's picture

So today i go to pick up my SS4 from daycare and as were driving to get SS10 FROM school were talking like we always do about school,and things and out fo no where he yells at me "my mom doesnt like you, and my mon doesnt like my dad", so im speechless bc well i know she hates me and the feeling is very mutual but when its yelled to me from my 4 yr old SS its a lil shocking.

My income and "His" child support

whattodo's picture

Looking for Canadian Info

Any one know if my financial background and income will effect what my soon to be Husband pays in child support? I am selling my house and bringing in a large amount of money into the relationship. We've had the pre-nup conversation but it's not finalized yet. Thanks in advance.

So far, So quiet. (update)

Chel Bell's picture

Things have been quiet on both ends after the 150 proof phone call from BM. My DH went to work as usual yesterday, and left the cell phone at home...I asked him to , so if she did call again, he would not be bothered at work, and I have enough control not to answer it. I was happy there were no calls, not even from SS, who the call was supposed to be for, to talk to me, in the first place.Now he has the phone today, but we really don't expect any thing to happen,.the past calls were at night anyways.

Hello

StepG's picture

Hi - I have been accessing this site daily for about 1yr now maybe longer but never posted. I am a stepmom to a 7yr boy no bio kids. My H and I have been together for 5 years and married for 8mths. We have great relationship as do I with SS. Finally decided to post as we are about to go through some rough times(more so than normal) with BM as we are going back to court to seek custody modification to get week on and week off with SS. Currently we only have 1 night a week, every other weekend, and holidays etc are split. My SS is the one who will suffer the most due to his CRAZY BM.

It's a girl! :)

Nymh's picture

Just wanted to post a quick preggo update. It's a girl! Yay! I'm so excited Smile I can't wait to meet my little girl.

We haven't decided on a name yet. We didn't really start talking about names until we found out that she was a girl.

I'm 19 weeks now, almost halfway there!

Ooof she gives me a headache

Bec's picture

SD18 has come round to see her sister. She is one spoiled brat. Grrrrr they have been planning and plotting how much money their father *owes* them. There is nothing endearing about her at all. She is one lady muck with the face like the North end of a South-bound cow. Anyway now I have got that off my chest hopefully my headache tabs will kick in.

Very Concerned-- Need advice

SoontobeWifeandMom's picture

My fiance and I have always planned to move away from the town we live in now. Plan is that in 16 months we will move at least 3 hours away. I am moving to go back and finish grad school. Anyways I have always thought that SD2 would be much better off coming with us. Even BM acknowledges we can provide SD with a better more stable life, but I am beginning to wonder if SD is too connected to BM to leave. Has anyone else been in a position like this? We want to take her but don't want to scare her for life. And BM has already agreed to let us take her.

When is enough, enough

Goincrazy1970's picture

My bf moved in with me and my son in August of 2007. He has been married 3 times and is going through his third divorce. The bm of his daughter is his second wife. She refuses to allow him to bring his daughter to our house. It started out as being too soon after he left his third wife. This was in August well she still is not coming to our home. When he gets her every other weekend he goes to his mothers and spends the night. He is still going thru the divorce from the third wife.

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