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ChildSupport and the State

StepG's picture

are there many of you that have to send the child support to the state? My H got letter from state saying he is now ordered to send his payment to state from here on out and anything given to BM after this point would be considered a gift. So our attorney calls the child support office to see why we now have to send to state and come to find out BM is getting some type of state aid and that is why. I am new to site and you may not know that we have filed a petition to modify the custody and child suppot.

And the pile gets deeper....

Sarah101's picture

So this weekend I hear a very disrespectful message on our answering machine from the pothead alcoholic SS21. It was aimed at me, of course. I immediately replayed the message for DH (who agreed that it was disrespectful) and said, "This is exactly that kind of crap I am sick of dealing with. So you deal with it."

Mind you, I haven't even spoken with SS21 or seen him since last August.

court today...nothing resolved and i feel worse now more than ever

bellacita's picture

so we went to court today so we could hear what the GAL found out about the whole situation. first off, he said there are no issues...nothing is going on, SD is fine. then we find out that he costs $1000 and my BF has to pay $750 of that...we dont have this kind of money, dont know where we are going to get the money. so it cost us $750 to hear in court that BM is a liar...WOW THANKS. we couldve said that and it wouldnt have cost us a thing. then they started ironing out visitation. first the GAL wanted Bf to have SD every saturday...nice eh?

WHAT A LOAD OF CRAP

TheSaneOne's picture

So, we get the two SD's that live out of state. The 8 yo comes with a pre-paid cell that she is insisting on calling her mom because "we never let her call her" well, she has never asked before and we get them very little - when she wants to call she does and when the bitch calls she talks to her. Everytime this happens she gets off the phone upset.

BM says I need to grow up-- long overdue vent

SoontobeWifeandMom's picture

I was very lucky to discover this site very early into my relationship with BF so right from the start I made sure not to get in the middle of BF and BM. Now a year later I have not even had a conversation with the woman. I have found no reason to talk to her. Whatever she needs to talk about should be about SD and that is none of my business it is BF's therefore I find no reason to talk to her. Apparently this is driving her crazy. She has gone to many extremes to try and talk to me including asking my sister for my number and telling BF that I need to grow up and talk to her.

I'm going back to school!

Nymh's picture

Hooray! It's been heck trying to get the university to recognize me as an independent student, but they finally caved since I have a baby on the way. According to law, you're considered dependent until you're 25 unless you're married or have a child. Well, my parents live in a different state, I own my own home, own my own business...however, few people know this but I'm 22 (yeah, I know) and not married and have no children!

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