My exH is a typical deadbeat dads!
At this moment he is nearly $20,000 behind in child support!!! He hasn't been caught up in over 10 years and the number has only gotten higher and higher.
He doesn't work much and when he does it's usually for cash so that it's not recorded.
Years ago he could have gotten the original amount reduced...I told him to do it (it's better than getting behind)...my lawyer told him to do it...Hell, the judge even told him once to file the paperwork to get it reduced...but he's too lazy!! Well, that's HIS problem that he's this far behind.

Some of you may have read my post a couple weeks ago about other SS wanting to move in with us.
He still does......
He told BM over the last couple weeks that he wants to come live with us and OMG the treatment he got from BM. She screamed at him and grounded him for 5 months for wanting to "leave her" and even went so far as to tell him that if he were to continue wanting to come live here that she would not come and get him for visitation and that she would disown him.....WTF???!!!!!!!
This woman (and I use that term loosely) has completely lost her mind.

The normal time to pick up SD (7) on Friday evenings is 5:30pm. Depending on my husbands work schedule, this works out just fine as long as they throw the other a text verifying the time. BM usually texts H between 2-4pm, usually saying ,'usual time?' Today, no text, not even at 5pm. It takes H 30 minutes to get where BM considers half-way. H didn't know what was gong on and he was still working. I'd get SD, but I don't have a friggin car. So, H texts BM, can they make it 6 instead of 5:30.

As most of you know, my BF and BM are working out child support, parenting time and custody themselves per their divorce. Anyway, things have been going pretty well so far. BF and I came up with some other stuff he would like - thanks to all who gave suggestions - and we emailed them to BM. BM emailed back stating as follows...