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I love my BF so much, but the BM is driving me crazy! She calls him everyday for no reason at all. Whether it be to bitch at him or cry or i think personally to make us all miserable.
Even if we dont have his son, she calls everyday. How can we get this to stop? Last night she called after 10:00pm, with this sultry voice, and everytime she leaves a message, she says, its important. Thank God my BF doesn't always answer to her each and every call.
Good morning everyone, can someone please recommend a computer surveillance software. I found some disturbing searches on my SS12 side that I would like to investigate. I have a sinking feeling that he was molested because he has some classic signs of it but I can't go to H without concrete evidence (see previous post) and really feel SS needs counseling as well as anger management counseling. Pls advise.
Ok, I am both sympathetic and annoyed about this.
Just this weekend SS12 peed his bed twice. Some weekends he does and some weekends he doesn't. When I first questioned my husband (many months ago) about this he said his ex-w took ss to a doctor a few years ago and the dr. said he would grow out of it. Well here we are at pre-teen and he hasn't grown out of it yet.
Of course, I have to deal with the stench of urine and ss puts peed clothes and linens in a bag for rush laundry duty -- which he doesn't do.
...to live with. Hi, everyone, I live in New York and was wondering if anyone knows the age a child can choose to live with divorced parent. My H is under the impression that SS12 can now choose to live with us. Of course this all stemmed from SS calling H after work yesterday asking if he can spend the night and do his project. (I was furious.) SS has a home computer and a library by him. 1st of all we have him every weekend until monday morning - that's 3 nights - and every major holiday.
This is something that is out of my control but I think about frequently because I don't know how I'll deal with it when the time comes...
It's inevitable that my ex will die from something alcohol related, be it his liver, or poisoning, or just doing something stupid and killing himself on purpose or accident...this man treated me like crap for 3 years, drank up his paychecks and cheated on me and I still kept him around...I know, I was stupid...I kept him around for a year after my daughter was born and than was rid of him...
Hello to everyone out there in step parent land.. I am so happy to have found this site. I was feeling so alone in my situation and really have no one else to vent to who really understands what I'm going thru or dealing with. Oh sure, I can tell someone that my husbands ex is crazy but I always get this look of "yeah..right"..then I go into "no..I mean she's reeaaalllyy crazy" they just don't understand how bad ex's can be. She really is crazy by the way.
and it still doesn't seem like it's enough.
SD16 has been very sick for a few months now. DH gave up his job last fall to sit with her in ICU-I took time off to be there for him (he has since started working again and it's a much better position!).
SD16 has a rare disease that has affected her memory. She doesn't know who anyone is, even her mother whom she has always lived with.
Went over to BF's for the wknd again.Tried to think positive.He made sure I got there and then said BM was coming into his pub on her birthday.He has compared me unfavourably to her before and I haven't met her/coping.
I was upsetabout her coming but wouldn't have stopped it and told him so.I had a drink and told him how upset I was that he rarely cared about my feelings.BM btw never has 'SS' any weekends or even part,most bdays or mothers day if it falls on weekend.She wanted her present off him.
STBH divorce hearing is tomorrow and he wants me to go with him. His lawywer told him that he needs a witness to testify to the fact that he and BB/STBEW have not lived together for the past 18 months. I don't want to do anything that would make her not sign those papers tomorrow. She is stupid. I know it would just make her ass itch to see me in court tomorrow. What would you ladies and gents do? :puzzled:
It's over! I'm tired of being disrespected and treated in a manner that no one in a relationship should ever be treated! I just broke up with my DBF of 9 total years and there is no looking back....I feel like all that I've been through was a total waste of time that I can never get back. All the counseling...a waste...all the talking...a waste...and what am I left with? My heart is broken and I don't know how I will go forward from this point...
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