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My First Domestic Violence Eencounter

English's picture

Tonight I was officially inaugurated into the domestic violence club. I gave myself a pedicure and then my 10 year old got interested so I gave him a short pedicure. By then my husband started commenting how gross it was to do that in our bedroom. I countered, " I have a towel down catching everything. I'm doing yours next. I'll run the vacuum when I'm done." my oldest poked his head in the room and his brother told him how great it was but apparently that was too much ( as is everything my oldest does ALL THE TIME).

BM's life is falling apart

Nymh's picture

Apparently someone has put a lien on her accounts because she hasn't made any payments. She claims that it is marital debt but won't say who it is or what it was for. All of this debt is in her name - BF has no access to any of the accounts and can't even call to request information because his name was NEVER on any of these accounts. He has already paid off everything that was in his name during their marriage.

Back Child Support $$$ came today!!!!

steppie1999's picture

I AM SOOOOOO HAPPY!!!!!!
True to form...lit the fire under EXH's A$$ via the State and an upcoming court date of June 3rd that comes with a threat of jail til back child support is paid and I got a check in the mail today for ALL the back child support owed for the last 9 years!!!!

I am sooooooo Happy!!! This definitely lifts a HUGE FINANCIAL WEIGHT off my shoulders!!!!

GOTTA GO....HEADING TO THE BANK!!! Biggrin

"I look mad"

kay's picture

That is what my 5 year old said to me today. "You look mad Mommy." After yesterday's post, thanks for all the advice, I still can not get over my husband having these calls and text messages with not one woman but two woman. I did a little more research as recommended to me and it hurt even worse. He called her Thanksgiving,X-mas eve, new years eve, V-day, even ground hogs day. What blessed holiday is left that i will be able to enjoy without the back of my head telling me that "oh yes he talked to her this day." I can not even look at him today.

The grass wasn't greener

Sia's picture

on the other side. Hehehehe. All I can do is laugh, and I will go to hell for it some day!!! SD16 called DH today and was crying about how BM's isn't quite the place she had in mind when she demanded to move in with her. For those of you who are aware of the situation, you remember all the trouble she caused. All the trouble she caused, I'm positive, was her trying to get us to allow her to go with BM. Last week, my therapist said she would "bail out" of that situation soon, and sounds like she has. BM made all these empty promises, and obviously didn't fulfill any of them.

Now I have read it all, and it explains a lot!!!

frustratedinMA's picture

For awhile now, I occassionally go onto myspace and see if my dh's ex is on there, as well as her new dh. I havent had much luck.. UNTIL TODAY.. I hit pay dirt.

So.. I find the elusive ex.. and start to reading her blogs, thinking I can gain a better understanding of why she does and says the things she does and says. Well. I found it.. I found the reason I think she hates me so freakin much!

I have to thank BM

laughterandtears's picture

I owe many thanks to the BM in my family. She was awful enough to make me seek a place to turn to and so I happened this site. I have many wonderful friends from here that have carried over into my everyday life. I love those friends and would do anything to help them. So, BM, I thank you for that. She was stupid enough to act like an immature child while her and SDA were married, which caused a divorce, so now he is mine. Thank you, BM, for being an idiot. I must also thank her for being a worthless mother. She has given her kids to me, is allowing me to adopt them and call them my own.

Is there something wrong with me?

stepmominPA's picture

This is the first time I am posting anything on this web site although I've logged on many times. Knowing that other people are dealing with the same thing as me really helps. Here is my problem: I'm begining to really resent my skids (sd 8 & ss 11). My husband and I have been married for almost a year, we get the kids the typical every Wednesday for the night and every other weekend Friday to Monday. I don't have any kids of my own and dont plan on having any. I dread having them here. They constantly are fighting/wresting or eating.

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