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This woman keeps sending FSS with underwear that are way too small! Plus he's overweight...we weighed him and checked a growth chart and he's 5 but is fitting into size 8 pants around the waist only...FH asked FSS if his mother had boughten him new underwear, FSS replies with "Mom said you never send money to take care of me" :O This woman is stupider than I thought! What does CPS do about parental alienation? And he still has those white marks on his nails and now he has rosy cheeks, rosacia?
Some of you may have read my post a couple weeks ago about other SS wanting to move in with us.
He still does......
He told BM over the last couple weeks that he wants to come live with us and OMG the treatment he got from BM. She screamed at him and grounded him for 5 months for wanting to "leave her" and even went so far as to tell him that if he were to continue wanting to come live here that she would not come and get him for visitation and that she would disown him.....WTF???!!!!!!!
This woman (and I use that term loosely) has completely lost her mind.
First of all, picked SS and SD up at 6, as usual, for the weekend.
Their Step-Grandparents car was in the driveway so H told SS (the one who lives with us) that he better go in and say hello in case they aren't here on Sunday when we drop his brother and sister off. SS went to the door but it was locked so he had to wait. His SGma answered the door, but only opened it a crack instead of just inviting him in...SS finally got inside the door when his brother and sister came down to go out...SGma gave him a very reluctant hug.
The normal time to pick up SD (7) on Friday evenings is 5:30pm. Depending on my husbands work schedule, this works out just fine as long as they throw the other a text verifying the time. BM usually texts H between 2-4pm, usually saying ,'usual time?' Today, no text, not even at 5pm. It takes H 30 minutes to get where BM considers half-way. H didn't know what was gong on and he was still working. I'd get SD, but I don't have a friggin car. So, H texts BM, can they make it 6 instead of 5:30.
So here I am, once again, on a Friday afternoon feeling nervous and anxious (not the good kind).
My husband is on his way down to, where the BM refers to as half-way, to pick up SD(7).
As most of you know, my BF and BM are working out child support, parenting time and custody themselves per their divorce. Anyway, things have been going pretty well so far. BF and I came up with some other stuff he would like - thanks to all who gave suggestions - and we emailed them to BM. BM emailed back stating as follows...
well im happy to say that i am looking at my SS4 right now and i have never been happier. DF went to pick him up from school early so that BM couldnt keep him from us on our weekend.
Sigh....only 1 more day of sanity left....the SD comes home from University tomorrow, the next 4 months will be a living hell. Pretty bad when my 9 yr son acts more responsible and mature at times. On the up side I will be moving out to the cottage as soon as I can so I won't have to spend the whole summer listening to how 'perfect' the BM is....funny how the child forgets so easily that she hated the women when they lived together. Pretty easy since she's only seen her BM for a total of 3 weeks in the last 4 years.
BM has been rather nice lately, but we knew that there would eventually be something that set her back a few steps. My parents came down for the weekend last weekend, which happened to be the weekend that we had SS for visitation. We asked SS if he would like for him and BF to spend the weekend with me and my parents in the condo they rented, or stay at home. We gave him the option, and he decided to spend the weekend with my parents.
All I ever hear is: At moms house I could...., Well mom let me...., This is how we did it at mom's....
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