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I cant say that I am entirely shocked. This Thursday my DH swapped hours with a co-worker to go to mediation with BM.DH called me about 20 mins after their session should have started to tell me BM hadnt shown up yet.
I know that most people on here do NOT want BM in their home, nor do they want DH to go to BM home. We have always been different in that regard and have always enforced the "come into our home when you pick up child" so that it doesn't look awkward or hostile.
Well, DH has gotten BM to agree to child support. Granted, she gets 2 years to pay us and she gets to pay us less than she would if we took her to court, but she feels that he is ripping her off.
I'm 25 weeks pregnant and I'm so annoyed with DH and SS. Everything they do bothers me.
On Monday I went grocerry shopping to pick up some items for my lunches since I was starting a new job and I get up in the morning and guess who had pretty much eaten everything I'd gotten, yep SS. Seriously who eats 2 lbs of grapes, 6 bananas, 6 yogurt, peaches, lunch meat etc... all in less then 1 day? That's not including breakfast, lunch and dinner that I made him.
It all came to me... I got it...
When I went to the www.bonusfamilies.com website I remember readign the Biological mothers complaining of the term "BM" because of Bowel Movement... }:) LOL
I guess they NEEDED to come back with something... and guess what? Bonus mom makes BM as well...
Talk about confusing...
HAHA... The revenge of the BMS
LOL
didnt want that crazy beotch seeing that and getting all money hungry! ugh, these poor pathetic women!
So this Wednesday (last day of school for SD13), DH picks her up from school and takes her to her counseling appointment (the day was changed so BM could take and surprise, she backed out!).
DH picks her up and tries to engage SD in conversation during the drive, asking her about the last day of school and did she get phone numbers and emails for her friends here, where we live?
im actually relieved! im so happy to be able to be my nice bubbly self with this woman who no matter what my fh loves because it is his mother. i would be a fool to think i could turn my back for one second, but seriously now that mil and i will be civil and what not, bm is just a speck of dust in the background to me!
i am praying for NO drama, ill update tomorrow, lol!
Did someone replace my FH with the one I wanted???
First thing this am he sends me a text titled New Beginnings..and than just I love you.
Than he sends me an email telling me that (all of a sudden?) he sees that "BM is doing everything she can to cause drama and break us up and that will never happen and that he sent her an email stating that she needs to realize that he wants nothing to do with her except for their son and the games she is playing are immature and will NEVER break us up.
I am going to have to quit my job and get divorced just to keep up with my STalk surfing! 
A few short months ago I could reasonably skim each and every post in each and every recently active thread every day. That is not happenin these days.
I have to participate in a limited number of threads until they burn out. As one burns out I add one but I can't keep up with them all.
Any recommendations on how I can improve my surfing efficiency?
I caught DH in 3 lies about gifts to SK's recently. I want to know why he doesnt seem to care at all that I am upset about this? I want to know how other SM's handle this type of spending coverup by their DH :?
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