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so yesterday i mention to fh that i felt like an outsider at ss4 tball practice. i feel that bm manipulates ss in to behaving badly to make fh feel guilty like he is doing something wrong or to get fh to rush to her side to try to coach ss not to behave that way.
I don't know WHAT is going on..but something is eating at me..I don't know if it's women's intuition or my guts telling me but I don't like it..
I found out a little while ago that FH took SS to daycare this am. Usually BM drives to work with her mom and they drop off son at daycare. So Monday I found out that BM called FH to drop SS off because her mom didn't (she didn't go to work?)..he didn't but he had his mom do it..so than this morning my girlfriend tells me she saw FH driving with SS...so I ask him why he didn't tell me?
So I asked him...
What is your number one priority in life?
He said: YOU...
Isn't that refreshing!....
I can't stop wearing my smile...
And not only that, but he proves it to me everyday...
And here is a little something... why i think marriage comes first...
When you have a GREAT marriage, you provide an overall stable home... consequently the kids will benefit from that.
When you focus on the children, in no WAY the marriage benefits from that...
SS6 does NOT listen to my BD13 when she babysits..she will tell him to stop doing something and he flat out looks at her and says "no"..FH has yelled at SS over this many times. BD is watching SS two days a week for extra $$ in the summer and SS HAS to start listening to her.
So last night I had an appt. and BD watched SS for about two hours..and it happened..he also walked by her and smacked her butt! LOL!
I have been reading Rag's blog about hygeine and his 17 yr old SS-DH and I have the same issue with Zippy 16.5. Zippy has severe acne (genetic) and has meds and special soaps for his face and a Dr.'s regime (see skin blog for details) that for reason's unknown to me -Zippy fails to comply an DH see's "no big deal"-Zippy now has a break out with acne the size of golf balls on his face whereby people are pointing and staring (I kid you not!).
What are some of you doing for Father's Day for you're SO? Im trying to plan something for my hubby but have no idea what!!! Any ideas???
So last night FH's best friend came over..he is older than FH (about my age) and more mature in dealing with women. He had a very messy divorce and regrets things he did and didn't do for his wife.
He came to work yesterday on a cloud. He said that he was the only person at the courthouse walking around with a smile on his face. He has four children. Two from his first marriage (21 and 18) and two with his current Wife.
He came to my office and just sat there with a big ol grin on his face, turned to me and said. "17 years $130,000 and I just got a $600/mo raise". "My XW is going to freak out. I am not calling to tell her, the CSE will send her a letter".
I am a single mother in a relationship with a man with 2 kids (SD17 & SS13). I have 2 kids but only my BD10 lives with us. My son is 19 and lives with his father quite far away. Anyway, my SD17 is driving me mad! She is so selfish. She has been living with us since Jan 2009 with the understanding that she will finish school (18 mo still to go.) But she is heavily involved with a guy who lives 100 km's away from us and all she wants to do is get there to him at any opportunity she gets (or doesn't get).
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