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Ok a few weeks ago BM called DH just to read CO that He can only pick up SS5 on thursdays during the school year... Sooo the school year here ended like last week.
So after our fight Saturday night, I guess my husband really got to thinking about things. He thought about the pants SD8 wore from BM's (with the HUGE hole in the crotch). He thought about SD8 not doing her homework at BM's. Then Monday, he has an email from BM: Once again, not making any sense & threatening him with an ultimatum. Now, keep in mind that BM has already stated several times that she will not agree to meeting halfway for dropping off/picking up SD8. This is the **ONE** request my husband had & she flat out refused.
there has been so much going on, and last night i finally told fh that i dont know if i can handle all the baggage. i cant read the future but i do know i have been able to weather through so far, and am still in love with him and want to marry him, but i know that i can not honestly say that forever i will be able to deal with ss, bm, and mil because i fear things will get worse.
We both agreed that if things were different we would hold off on the wedding, however, it has ALL been paid for already.
So quick history..after weeks or constant arguing (over BM basically) last week I caught FH texting a girl trying to meet up with her that day for drinks. He told her via the text that he wanted to be her "second boyfriend" that song from Pleasure P for anyone that listens to that music.
The girl never responded..if she had who knows what would've happened.
He said he was wrong, he said that my constant arguing pushed him away..as I do not agree that I held a gun to his head..I DID agree that I argue TOO much..and agreed to start fresh with less arguing.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4CAk7oSbNhw&feature=related
I found this video... totally crazy... What do you think?
As most of you already know from previous blogs..I'm SM to my FH's son who is 6 whose mother abandoned him when he was 2. Now when FH was with BM of SS2 she watched SS5 while FH worked..once FH met me she told him she couldn't watch SS5 anymore..which I feel was abandonment again. When BM pulled this IM the one that found him a new daycare.
And she is about to start singing. After therapy today my wife wants a new counselor, this one is always blaming her for everything wrong, shes a lousy parent... This isnt true, but she does try to get my wife to see that her way isnt always the right way when you have a husband.
Morale is at an all time low. :sick:
on my life with SD17 who is still with her bf but FH is fetching her today so that we can go for our marriage class tonight.
So FH got offered an amazing job, the only problem is it is on the East Coast. Currently we live on the West Coast in the same small town as BM. Due to recent events in court we have managed to obtain custodial custody of SD3. We have her 75% of the time. How will our moving affect this in court? Is there a way that BM could prevent us from moving? Does it help that we are moving for better job opportunities and to be in a better school district? The move will not happen for another seven months so we have time to work things out in court if needed.
im curious to know if looking back you feel that the major reason you married dh was to not let bm win? Did you feel like she created all the drama and what not to end your relstionship, and you just couldnt walk away because then she wins, and you walk away from some one that you love?
if you did, do you think now that win or lose, you should have left it all, and not kept dealing with it? letting her win and walking away from the constant termoil would have been the better choice?