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It's only Monday and I'm starting to fear the upcoming weekend. I don't know if the weekends are that bad, or if I just constantly overreact. Probably a little bit of both. Nevertheless....I see a couple of "late nights at work" in my future. Or the tried and true..."I have a headache and am going to bed early".
Maybe we're being overly critical and feel free to tell me if I am, but at least once a week on a night that BM has the kids (SS2 and SD4), she goes out. Does anyone else think this is ridiculous? It is a 50/50 schedule. Why does she need to go out on the nights she has the kids? Is it that hard to stay home with your children?
This weekend went so WONDERFUL......skid free all week! Went to the movies( no fights about what skid wanted to see ), dinner at a romantic place( no drama about skid not liking the place we pick),relax by the pool(no skid bugging us to do what he wants),went for a walk(no skid giving us a bad time for not liking this)went to see friends(no skid up-set for coming with us or mad and acting out for staying behind) what a great time skid free.....do you guys enjoy your skid free times too?
ever since the doctors thing a couple weeks back, bm and i have had a little communication via text messages.
everything has been going very nicely, and its so great. But I still feel like bm does things underhandedly to piss us off, but there is nothing dh or i can do or say because we are on this path of "getting along"
BM is now engaged.
I am really angry because if my BF had not bent over backwards to keep the peace with her there is no way she'd be engaged. If he was a thorn in her side like she's been in his her BF would never be able to handle it. She had an affair on BF and is marrying this guy and my BF has been nothing but nice and civil.
I feel angry because she's a huge reason why things are not good between BF and me...all her paranoia, focus on SD, unreasonable requests, text messages at all hours, controlling behavior have completely turned me off to getting married.
BM informed DH she’s changing jobs yet again (the third time in six years).
The boys and DH (and I) have just gotten settled into this schedule. Last time she switched jobs the boys were out of control, stressed, for months. DH told BM she’s not to change the custody schedule with this job change. Yeah for DH! In the past we’ve switched EOW visitation I.E. flipped our weekends and added nights to accommodate her work schedule. DH also told BM he's keeping the boys the same number of overnights per month that we have now.
I was asked for an update, so I decided to drop by and let everyone know what's been going on with my life.
BM opened a FB account for SD12. BM has the password for it but refused to give DH the password. Both DH and I blocked BM from our FB accounts.
SD now wants to add DH, and that's his daughter and he doesn't have the password so of course he wants to add her esp. in order to monitor her a little bit as she is becoming a teenager.
Since the last time I posted BM has been literally "off the chain" so to speak.
She has been withholding visitation, not showing up as the court order states, and attempting to fraud husband to get more money for insurance purposes.
So - DH filed the contempt charges with the lawyer. Lawyer should be taking the signed affadavit to the court house today or tomorrow. I am hoping the case comes up very quickly as if she keeps up with her patterns..... DH is not going to see SD very much until school starts again - in August for SD.
Stepson 7 is incredibly negative. He corrects everyone (but he's almost always wrong) and he is just generally aggressive and difficult to be around. He shouts "NO" in response to everything anyone says, and clearly thinks it is funny. He also lunges and attacks under the guise of "play", but sometimes it really hurts me!