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I don't know who to be upset with DH, or SS12!!! SS12 is a rotten brat and I hate him!!! I can't stand the sight of him or the sound of his whiney voice!!! Noe DH wants me to be a mother to him, and Lord knows I have tried but rthe kid is rotten, and every time I do something motherly like I do to my own kids like try to discipline him he screams and yells in my face and DH, basically tells me to butt out and He'll deal with, which he never really does he just growls at him for a second or two and then ss12 does whatever he wants anyway!
I've been working really hard on not letting BM into my life and my head, and it has been working well... but now she's gone and done it again!
We took SS10 to his grandparents last weekend, and dropped him back to BM's Monday evening. When OH took him in she asked if we could have him Saturday night as she was going out and "this shouldn't be a problem as I'm having him the whole of the following weekend"
WTF????
hi, im new to this site but i hope i will find someone that understands!
I have a 2 year old son and a 6 year old step daughter, the SD is always lying and trying to turn her mum against me, she is so sneaky and everyone says 'oh she's only 6 she doesn't understand' but she knows full well what she's doing.
She just bought a house in August, and has an 11 year old boy with my husband (SS) and a 2.5yo baby boy with her "fiance". Apparently, things are so "tight" financially at home, that they can't afford a babysitter for their baby --- so the fiance is working at a job & living with his mother & the baby during the week (about an hour away from BM)... so she only sees her baby now on the week ends? They just came back from a vacation in DR, and have a new car that HER mother bought them -- a 2010 Escape....
Ah, sorry, I am worn out of living in this mess with the in-laws...been kind of looking for houses, but with the child support mess that crazy witch caused us last time, we just can't take a risk on buying a house we can "afford" and then crazy witch coming back with more drama and child support...also, because of where we live, if we spend too much on a house, and something happens to DH, I would end up on the street because I would be forced to give his kid part of the cost of the house or sell the house if I couldn't afford to give her "her part"...sigh...
I was doing my grocery shopping today, and I overheard a young woman (she looked like she was in her early 20s) was talking very loudly to her mother on her cell phone. We were both in the magazine aisle.
What I heard her say was unbelievable. She was talking about child support to her mother. To top it all off, the CS she was talking about wasn't meant for her or any kids she may have. It was meant for her much younger brother.
My BF is currently going through a very annoying divorce... we met long after they separated and it just started when i met.. and 2 yrs later its still going on!
i don't understand why on earth BM think they have the right to take the LOT!
I work with this new guy and he complains about everything.
I can't complain about him ... ha ... because I am a bit of a whiner. HOWEVER, I try to complain and present solutions. He just gripes.
I get home from work and DH is whining about the boys being terribly annoying with their "pechew pechew" (laser gun noises) and their constant punching each other. Oh it can get on anyone's nerves I think ...
And BM called. No complaining from her, but she is the icing on the Cake of Negativity.
I'm not "tired" anymore. Steptalk has given me a place to vent my frustrations without taking things out on my husband or the skids. I've learned to let go of many things. I come for good advice, and take whatever I get back all in stride. Even though I haven't "friended" many people, there are a few posters I also look for and take a peek in their lives... I value your thoughts and opinions. And yes, there are some days when I realize I don't have it so bad afterall!
It is really NONE of my business what BM of SS11 does with him on her weekends...I know this! But it really pisses me off that she NEVER has him on HER weekends. She can always find someone to take him off of her hands!( I never have mentioned this to her but I have to DH...nothing he can really do about it though) This past weekend...she thought it was going to be us. No bitch...don't think so! So of course...she finds someone else to send him to! It might not make me so mad if the same were true for us.
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