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I can't complain, because at least I do have a job again through June. But when I realized yesterday that, because of my work schedule, it's going to be very difficult for me to get home in time to say good-night to SS's it made me so sad.
Reading everyones post and how involved everyone gets in there skids lives i feel sort of bad now!
im alot younger then my DH and don't have any bio-kids of my own (maybe one day! and he isnt fussed either way) and there is a SD 7 and SS 10, and they come around everyone 2nd weekend and 1 night during the week, and i'm getting to build a relationship/friendship with them... but to be honest i don't think i lost myself when this all started.
so....this past weekend, a very close friend of the family was thrown a going away party. I attended with my ss7 and my dh was working. my dh didnt get out of work until 8:00 p.m. and showed up to the party shortly there after. The party was held at a local joint which is both a bar and restaurant. The party was in the restaurant section of the place. well, bm's ex bf was there ( we live in a very small town) and he decided to text bm and tell her that ss was there at a bar at 8:00 w/me and not my dh.
She called me today when she got home from school and asked me where I was. I was coming into town so I told her. She told me to come by because she got me something. I said I'm on my way! LOL!
I got there and she gave me the book "Twilight", the first of the series. I read the last two and figured I'd read the first and second when I was done and got around to it since I already saw the movies. She knew this because she loaned me the last two!
She said that the school had a book fair and she couldn't resist.
My MIL got onto me this weekend about not showing the skids enough love. She said that the skids came to her and told her that they didn't feel loved. She said that she told my H the same thing but when I bring it up to him he kinda acts like he doesn't know what I'm talking about. I used to be able to hug them and kiss them. Something has changed though and I'd just rather not be around them and I'm not sure why. Does or has anyone else ever had this sort of problem?
DH just got out of court with SS11 BM for "Failure to Provide" Ruling? In HIS favor as he had all the documentation proving he had paid that no good!!! Did she show the judge all the FB crap that I supposedly said to her son??? Nope...another empty threat. (Because there was nothing said to the brat!) This woman is such a freaking headcase and it bound and determined to make our lives hell!!!!
Not trying to blog-hog but I had something else to vent about..
It's only Monday and I'm starting to fear the upcoming weekend. I don't know if the weekends are that bad, or if I just constantly overreact. Probably a little bit of both. Nevertheless....I see a couple of "late nights at work" in my future. Or the tried and true..."I have a headache and am going to bed early".
Maybe we're being overly critical and feel free to tell me if I am, but at least once a week on a night that BM has the kids (SS2 and SD4), she goes out. Does anyone else think this is ridiculous? It is a 50/50 schedule. Why does she need to go out on the nights she has the kids? Is it that hard to stay home with your children?
This weekend went so WONDERFUL......skid free all week! Went to the movies( no fights about what skid wanted to see ), dinner at a romantic place( no drama about skid not liking the place we pick),relax by the pool(no skid bugging us to do what he wants),went for a walk(no skid giving us a bad time for not liking this)went to see friends(no skid up-set for coming with us or mad and acting out for staying behind) what a great time skid free.....do you guys enjoy your skid free times too?