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Monday was valentines day as you all know, we had our taxes done the previous thursday - found out we owe about $5000. wonderful news - NOT!!!
I don't know, but I just think it would make things infinitely better, if DH could wake up every morning and hit me with an inspirational saying such as, "I regret ever laying sight on that bitch and I'm sorry for how my past decisions have affected your life, continue to affect your life and probably always will affect your life. I'm sincerely sorry. I love you and I appreciate all that you do for me, and my kids, I know it isn't easy for you." Then my day can always get off to a good start.
I'm allowed to dream, right...
Long time lurker - first time poster. Waves hello to all!
I've lurked here for the last 6 months or so. I've laughed with you, cried with you and shared your joys and misery. So I decided to step into the light.
I am a stepmother of 34 years. Lord that sounds like a long time, doesn't it?
I have a SD 40 and a SS 39 no bios of my own. We were noncustodial parents back in the day when the BM was automatically awarded physical custody.
Okay there was about a month where we didn't have too many complaints about BM but now that she's single again it's all downhill again.
As my DH is out of work (constructively terminated 2 weeks ago) he isn't sleeping very well so he is sleeping in our spare room so I can get a good night sleep. I have been dropping SS18 at school to save on gas.
So this morning I get up, get the coffee on, have a shower .... 6:15 and SS or DH aren't making a sound. OK, so continued getting ready for work....I told SS we would be walking out the door at 6:45 because we left later yesterday which made me late for work.
Hmmm, 6:35 and no sounds at all. Not even a toilet flushing.
I have been with my man for about 2 years (although we met eachother and were seriously involved many years ago). We found our way back into eachothers lives and it was like not a single day had passed! The problem is...it did! During our long time apart (roughly 13years) he married and had a daughter. (i have a 15yr old son as well as the 5 month old son we have together) His daughter is terrific...i just wish i could say the same for his X!!! She is a huge problem in our life and takes every opportunity she can to control him and treat him like he is still HER husband!
Saturday morning we took SD12 to get a brand-new violin. Immediately after this we dropped her off at BM's house. I saw SD get out of the car carrying her violin and I said to DH, You're letting her take it with her?
guess my screenname really isnt true so much anymore.
Prayed the St. Jude prayer every night so far. What a day today was. What a step in the right direction. I have the utmost love and respect for my husband. When he picked up his 3 for today's visit, he sat them all down, and had it out. He told them he had had enough. The backward behavior over the past 6 mos. is done. They need to recognize what they have in this home. They have never been treated as anything but equals, they have own space, beds, dressers, toys, unconditional love.