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Can't get my blood to stop boiling over BM's lack of consideration this weekend.

SteppingUp's picture

(I posted this on Saturday but I am adding updates)
I blogged last week about how BM wanted us to take the skids for a few hours Saturday. Since FDH worked at both of his jobs with a break between 2 and 7 he told her we'd take them just until her mom gets off of work in the afternoon. She said she'd drop them off at 1 at our house.

I need your input on this - I was the one with the problem!!! Really?!

meneran's picture

So yesterday we had family lunch. We were going to a restaurant with some other family members. SS9 was with us this weekend so he went as well.

Where it goes all wrong:

Everyone is taking seats. BF is asking his son 'do you want to sit here?' pointing to a chair on his left. 'No, I want to sit here!' answers the kid, pointing to the chair between me and my BF. BF doesnt say anything, he seats the kid right there in between us, and letting me sit on the last chair at the end.

Our rules became my unreasonable issue...

youngmama1b1g's picture

Me and my fiancee somewhat recently moved to a new apartment. The place is easily twice the size of our old place. Which is great! When we moved, we had a small discussion about not allowing BM in. I felt very strongly about this, as I am not on friendly terms with BM. In fact, she's asked my fiancee to go out with her on a friday night to "hang out" and asked him to have a small dinner with her and son for son's 4th birthday.

Another GAL Related Update

mmmpork's picture

Met up with a couple today that have known BF and BM for several years. BF had given their names to the GAL as contacts for the investigation. As far as we knew, she hadn't contacted them, but we found out today that in fact she had, and had already spoken with one of them. The one she spoke with used to be BF's boss at a former job and had also spent time with BF, BM, and SD.

Confused and Hurt

Tracy143's picture

Well this is what is going on,after three years of marriage his fifteen year old daughter just out of the blue tells here dad that she liked me and loved me but she wished we never got married and then tonight his son ask if him and his mom can get back together,my husband responded to his son by saying(sorry buddy but that is not going to happen) the son then replied (ok) then let his dad go..

exhausted

sm-ing's picture

This has been a really exhausting skid week.

SO is mad at me, he says I'm in a bad mood today. And he's right. I am in a bad mood. I feel like this whole week I've catered to everyone, including him. He's had his head in his work or his computer or his Ipad all week, including this weekend. It doesn't bother me when it's just the two of us, but when we have SD I get emotionally exhausted and I just need more from him.

Bumping into BM

IslandofDreams's picture

So we had all the kids this weekend and decided to go shopping for some things. We go into a Department store and DH is trying on sunglasses with all the kids giving suggestions. Then we hear "there is the girls' mom". I look around to see BM crouching thru the aisles and saying Girls, Girls. Very wierd, why crouch thru the aisles, like she is doing something sneaky...

lost

LPowers's picture

I am new to this site but after reading some posts I think this may be what I need. I have a DH who has 1 daughter8 and 1 son(6), with 2 different women. Never married to either of them...We got married and now have a daughter together 8 months old. I didn't have time to adjust to being a new mom because I had SS all day and night because BM went to school to do hair. We used to not get along with SS's BM but now the table have turned and we really do not get along with SD's BM. I can't stand the way she raises SD and tries to dictate how we will raise SD at our home.

it's sunday and i can't wait for them to go home

somerg's picture

ok so i will probably sound like a royal bitch, but i really don't care. ok so (with dh's permission) i set up a yahoo account for sd (13 at that time now 14). so bm doesn't monitor either of them closley, so ok...i set up the accounts, i need to monitor, well, sd 14 decides that she's going to set up an google account without permission from anyone, i check her account, and see "google e-mail verification" so i print and show to dh, he confronts ex about it, and of course lies her ass off about it.

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