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I blogged about how bm said that ss15 hate dh for leaving her a single mom and as a result she is disabled. (not really she just thinks she is). then I cleared it up with ss15 and he was very angry at his mom and even said she is just disabled in the head. Then she went home and they were fighting and bm said she wants him to live with us then retracted it. Even bought him a pair of $130 shoes and expected dh to pay for half.
On top of that she sent about 4 texts saying how ss15 needs to stay where he is and that god gave her him for a reason and he is going no where.
I remeber the days when I was actually welcomed Fridays,no more backtalk battles and some relief for 2 nights and 2days. Nowadays I dread them. Seems like my 2 SS one or the other or even both at times will do WHATEVER they feel like just to get under my skin knowing they will be leaving no matter what at 5pm! There are NEVER any calls throughout the wk to speak to the boys nor are we contacted w/behavior updates or concerns through the wknd. DF wants as little contact as possible w/bm and I TOTALLY understand now,why.
Both of my FDH kids - 6 & 3 live with BM. They live an hour from us so we only get to see them every other weekend. I have BS9 and BD5. They live with us all the time since their father lives out of state.
BM is constantly stirring up problems. She keeps claiming that my BS9 is mean to SD6. Saying the children didn't get returned in the same clothes (including socks). She is contantly changing times and places on where to meet on fridays and sundays. She is always sending text and emails to FDH about the children - about silly stuff - stuff that doesn't matter.
There's no way to let it sound better - my 15yr old stepdaughter is pregnant!!! I can't believe that in South Africa, I mean our Aids figure is skyhigh, she can still have unprotected sex... Didn't her mother taught her anything?
It's like someone has taken over my body and I am this miserable person this morning. I am so dreading having SD over this weekend. I need to give my head a shake and act like a grown up for peatsake...what the hell is wrong with me???
OMG I think SD has turned me into the Terrible SM....what gives?????
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Friday morning....my quiet time after DH leaves for wotk and before DD wakes up. I savory this time pretty much every morning. Friday's especially. DD will be leaving for school in little over an hour and then my work day will begin. A friend may stop by for coffee and to chat...hopefully work won't be too busy. Sounds like bliss, doesn't it? But its Friday! and Friday is the day that the Skids come over. So by lunchtime I will be stressing up.
Hello everyone!
Last night I was thinking, how do you guys handle your house keys situations? Do your skids own a key to your home?
I know its too early for me to think about that, but ss9 will grow and eventually key issue will come to the table.
I don't want him to have key to our house. It is not his house, he lives with his mother and that should be his primary residence. He only visits eow now.
If you handed over the keys to your skid-s, when did you do that? How was it done? Was there problems?
I want to tell her you gave up your family and cheated on your husband. You had your husbands childhood bff od in your bed and I have no flippen clue how the law could allow you to take care of a child...YOu had an amazing man..Ok, I am not playing house but living life and teaching your child his abc's and 123's, his manners, teaching him what greedy means...I could go on and on...
Princess is back in the hospital today. She called me this time! My heart was breaking, because I could hear through the phone the pain she was in. There's really not much I can do, with her college being two hours away... She ended up going back to the hospital, since the doctor she met with earlier in the week wasn't in the office till 1 on Thursdays.
Loca Grande went up to be with her, and ended up bringing her back to the capital city to a larger hospital to try to meet with a specialist.
Still no news...
DH and SD had a major blow-out. She says she's not ever coming back. BM called and I hung up on her. We have heard nothing from BM or SD (usually we get nasty calls and emails). DH has been in such a good mood and wants sex ALL the time. I find it very odd, almost like he's glad I finally put my foot down about the bs and crazy phone calls and now he just wants to do it all the time.
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