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I am approaching this weekend with a renewed energy. I am going to act like the house is all mine and no one else lives there but me. Selfish, yes but sometimes I think it can't hurt to have a "whatever" approach to life.
this is more of a vent but happy for any advice for me or my BF.
I accidentally found out that my dh can see ALL of bm's face book and mine is VERY limited. He is not friends with her and has never looked her up. So I blocked her from dh's face book. I wonder how long it will take before she is screaming to dh that she is blocked??? Dh told me the other day to block her so I did! I did NOT block her from mine.
This has to do with my oldest boy and his father.
Our court order (as of November 2010) states that Dad is supposed to fly son to his town the 2nd weekend of each month. Dad is supposed to provide flight information to me obviously so I can get son to the airport. There is no mention of any other kind of travel arrangements or mention of either parent picking up/dropping off at the other parent's residence.
So BM texts DH she wants to keep the kids this weekend. We expected it, she angry at DH, it's always the first thing she tries to do. DH asked her why. No response. He asked how SD's finger is doing. She replied SD is doing pretty good. DH didn't respond again after that.
Later he sent an email saying that she never responded earlier about why she wants the kids this weekend and that he wants to see them and is willing to compromise to have them only one day if that's ok with her.
A female friend that I used to work with sent me this.
I read it to my wife. She was fine with all of them except the one about the toilet seat and the bottles in the shower (I added that one specifically for her benefit). That one made her mad.
Enjoy,
Rags
1) MEN ARE NOT MIND READERS (FIRST & FOREMOST RULE)
2) LEARN TO WORK THE TOILET SEAT. YOU'RE A BIG GIRL. IF IT'S UP, PUT IT DOWN. WE NEED IT UP, YOU NEED IT DOWN. YOU DON'T HEAR US COMPLAINING ABOUT YOU LEAVING IT DOWN.
I just came across this site and am very thankful, cause Im ready to pack my bags. I have a SD9, have been with her dad since she was 3. She lives with both BM and us. Her BM recently moved in with man shes only known 2 mos. So SD has been spending more time with us. SD seems to be jealous, when dad and i are hugging, she immediately comes between us and states "my daddy you cant have him". she always been close with me since she was 3, but lately its like playing ping pong.
This morning before I took the kids to school, SD11 asked me for $3 so she could buy her mom some chocolates for Valentine's Day. Umm what? How about if you want to buy someone a gift, buy something for your Dad who is out there busting his butt in 20 degree weather to make sure you have a roof over your head, food in your belly, and gymnastics and trampoline classes every week? SD11 doesn't even fully realize that her mom skipped town because her mom keeps telling her fifty different stories.
As soon as E.T. found out I was in the picture she started acting crazy, so I pretty much knew from the get-go that she and I wouldn't get along, but it has gotten so bad that I am at the point where even thinking about her makes me physically sick!
i think im becoming depressed. this will probably be long and i dont really think ill get any replies but thats okay i just need to get my feelings out. i asked H when he was last truly happy, like overcome with joy. he said the day he married me. that was almost 9 months ago. long time to be not be actually happy. i thought about it and i think the last time i was truly happy was when h was moving back here in november after we lived apart for 5ish months(i was supposed to move there but he lost his job). after that its been downhill ever since.