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I blogged earlier this week about how BM wanted us to take the skids for a few hours (originally asked for overnight) today. Since FDH works at both of his jobs today with a break between 2 and 7 he told her we'd take them just until her mom gets off of work this afternoon. She said she'd drop them off here at 1.
The interim report we got back in October was really disappointing. Even though there were all these flags all over the place of how nuts BM is, GAL did not recommend any changes. Going into the final report, the GAL was not very responsive or communicative to BF. She even said she didn't need a followup interview with either of them.
She did contact both lawyers and said she wanted to discuss what she was planning to recommend with both of them to see if they could come to some sort of agreement, to see if it would even be necessary for her to finish the report.
Sometimes I wonder why im putting myself through all this! My skids drive me absolutely crazy and FDH makes excuses, lets them get away with treating people bad, changes the subject when I try to talk about our issues, won't let me disipline them like i would my own, but wants me to clean, cook, be a taxi, get them clothes, haircuts, toys, take them where they want to go, etc. etc. If he wants me to be thier Mom then he needs to step back in every area. BM abandonded them and he feels guilty, Im not cushioning their hearts, or kissing their ass for this!! SS 13 is SPOILED beyond my belief.
So - DFW is taking her kids to see their father - who is incarcerated. It's a 6 hour drive so they are going to use the President's Day weekend. That happens to be my "short" weekend as during the school year, I get my bios every Friday overnight and every other Saturday overnight.
Loca Grande texted me Friday morning at 6am. Thank goodness I was going back to work, so I was awake. We exchanged a few texts back and forth- she wanted to meet to give loghead some money she owes him. I texted to just bring it to the ball game Saturday. She text back that Lazy Boye told her he didn't want her he didn't want her to come to his "f$%^ing games" any more and that he didn't want to see her. She texted she wouldn't be coming to the game.
CRAP. What now? We know PITA wants nothing to do with her, but what turned the tides for Lazy Boye?
My post earlier in the week about "weight" got the ball rolling! Several people chimed in and a few more threads started, so I thought I'd share a few more things I learned.
I know it's just typical pre-teen crap that I'm dealing with, but I was wondering if anyone has any coping strategies or anything that can help me here.
She's a good kid. Makes excellent grades and does everything we tell her too without (much) complaint. There's just some typical attitude and behaviors that really get on my nerves. They seem rather petty when I list them, but they get to me and I'm trying to find a way to keep them from getting to me.
Here's some examples:
Apparently SD15 has been behaving herself, as I'm getting emails. She gets internet access taken away when she's grounded, and that's the only way I have to communicate with her. We have a pretty good relationship, although that might just be because she NEVER sees me.
Because of the nightmare that Texas has put us through, I thought I'd write a lens about where to find the actual Texas laws, how to protect yourself, etc...if anyone pays child support to/in Texas, and you'd like to keep the info handy, here is the link
Recently, i had been bothered because of the ice machines due to its brokendown.You will need longer with the repairman to learn the broken part each and every time before i identified as the repairman and it's also really time-consuming