I just came across this site and am very thankful, cause Im ready to pack my bags. I have a SD9, have been with her dad since she was 3. She lives with both BM and us. Her BM recently moved in with man shes only known 2 mos. So SD has been spending more time with us. SD seems to be jealous, when dad and i are hugging, she immediately comes between us and states "my daddy you cant have him". she always been close with me since she was 3, but lately its like playing ping pong.