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Submitted by youngmama1b1g on Thu, 03/22/2012 - 2:39am

Not that it's been nagging me so much I had to post at this god early/late time, but I can't sleep so figured I'd post.

My SS is supposed to start school this September. His mother has said that since it's "more conveinent for her", SS will be going to the neighborhood school nearest her. Yes that school is probably half as good as our neighboring school, but as I've learned I can't fight that. It's up to those people called his parents to decide what will happen with him. Though that's not the point of this little post.

Had a talk today...

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Submitted by youngmama1b1g on Sat, 02/04/2012 - 9:20pm

My dearest husband actually muttered theses phrases to me: "You don't treat SS like you do BD. And you don't treat him like a teacher would. Can't you just treat him like one of your own?"
So, what do I say, "fine" and "ok"

Now if only my husband understood what that really means... heres a list for those who haven't seen this little code.
Something a little fun- which one do you always use??

Things that women SAY, and what they really MEANDescription:This is a list of things that a woman might say to you.

Ped Appt /Lazy BM RANT

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Submitted by youngmama1b1g on Thu, 02/02/2012 - 9:30pm

Little background, my SS turned 5 in early October. He has STILL not had his 5 yr check-up.
BM lost her and SSs state issued insurance back in November. Never asked my husband for his information- even though he's been covering SS since September 2010.
She FINALLY asks for the insurance when it hits December, but my husbands insurance company is about to change, so he emails her the new info for the insurance and everything (not a permanent card, but the temporary one).

bwahahahahahahaha

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Submitted by youngmama1b1g on Tue, 12/27/2011 - 4:31pm

So, with tax season around the corner, my husband decided to discuss with BM about claiming SS5 as she's done it every year since he's been born.

Her response, he "can't because it's illegal". So he responded back "how?" Considering he's been on child support since 2009 and custody was established at the beginning of this year to reflect that they have 50-50 physical and legal custody, I'd love to know what rock BM is living under. Oh, she received the information from her sister (whos still married to her children's father).

A stepfather (SF) /stepson (SS) issue

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Submitted by youngmama1b1g on Wed, 12/21/2011 - 4:17pm

My mother remarried when I was in my late teens, so my stepfather has never been that big of a piece in my life. Now he's extremely strict and is very hard on my little brother's who he lives with FT. His own daughters when visiting do not get the same harsh treatment. My mom has told me that she's tried bringing it up to him but he just doesn't see it. Ok, now most of you are probably saying 'ok, so what? that's her house, not yours'

Hubby Time

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Submitted by youngmama1b1g on Wed, 12/07/2011 - 1:57pm

...rather lack thereof. Any remedies?

Recently I was under the weather and as the semester is coming to a close been pretty swamped with work.
My husband hasn't been available either, he's been spending a lot of his free time preparing for a tournament and is on a rotating schedule for work too.

I noticed some texts between my husband and BM joking about this video game H sent to BMs with SS. But it made me realize I don't remember the last time I actually talked to my husband about non-kid/house/schedule stuff.

Christmas Lists

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Submitted by youngmama1b1g on Sat, 11/19/2011 - 7:26pm

My family is very organized, and my mom -while it seems a bit formal requests for me to send her a list of things we would like or need for Christmas. Including sizes for both my SS5 and BD2.

Now I've made the mistake of asking my dad and SM to purchase a stroller system when I was pregnant- not even thinking that they couldn't afford it. My dad told me they couldn't, but in the end purchased it anyways. Which I'm sure my SM was NOT too happy about. I really didn't understand it- as I am entirely too logical when it comes to gift giving.

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