I have been with my man for about 2 years (although we met eachother and were seriously involved many years ago). We found our way back into eachothers lives and it was like not a single day had passed! The problem is...it did! During our long time apart (roughly 13years) he married and had a daughter. (i have a 15yr old son as well as the 5 month old son we have together) His daughter is terrific...i just wish i could say the same for his X!!! She is a huge problem in our life and takes every opportunity she can to control him and treat him like he is still HER husband!