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If you have read my profile I have a 6 year old SD and over the last few months her father has been slowly fading out of her life. He makes many promises to her such as taking to her to places where they can spend some alone time. Yet when the time comes he takes her to friends or relatives and then spends little time with her as to even just drop her off and tells her that he has to go to work.
I've noticed that SS's attitude about BM's phone calls and the things that he says when he talks to her have undergone a pretty substantial change. A year ago, when BM would call (15 times) during BF and SS's visitation, their conversations would consist of her doing all the talking and him agreeing to whatever she said to get her to leave him alone. He would answer the phone cheerfully but get off the phone somewhat down. After about 15 minutes, he would be back to his normal self.
i have been with dh for eight years now and i am the proud sm of 10-year-old cassie. her mother is crazy and until last year, did everything in her power to keep us out of cassie's life. we got joint custody last june and since then have maintained regular visitation. her mother has tried still to keep us away, but thankfully we have an intelligent judge overseeing our case. she has accused my dh of domestic abuse (which was dismissed), she filed a temp. epo so dh couldn't get his daughter (also dismissed and we were awarded an extra weekend).
Ummm to late A$$hole...Isn't "hell" where i have already been for the past six and a half years?? And this stupid "f er" actuallly EXPECTS ME to give his brat a "ride to school t0morrow morning"??? NOPE.. the little bitch can f ing walk!!! Scew Him!!!
The good news..the elopement plans are starting to come along and we will be Mr. and Mrs on 07/07/07. Plane tickets are bought, miniser and photographer worked out. Now need to know if anyone out there are step talk no of a pretty location between Colorado Springs and Denver, such as a state park where we can hold the outdoor 20 minute ceremony? We haven't been really crazy about the couple of locations the photographer has suggested. The reason we wanted a state park or National Park is because the cost is minimal and with nine children between us we really need to watch those.
I'm new to StepTalk and thought I'd start blogging. It's great that there are resources such as this one where people experiencing similar difficulties can get together to help each other or just vent. (Isn't the internet great!) This blog is partly to keep tabs on myself on my own difficulties to date and partly to help others out there that might be going through similar things. I'm going to check back regularly to see what kind of progress I've made on these issues.
I can't belive the nerve of bm. I will try and fill you in it was her year to have sd for spring break so we have not seen her since April 4 ( we usually get her one night a week and everyother weekend and everyother week in the summer) anyway H2B was called out to work Sat night before Easter and was gone until 3 am Monday morning. Tries to call sd but of course her mother never answers anyway we don't hear from her all week until Sat April 14 she calls to tell Daddy that Mommy had her baby. WTF!!!
Has anybody ever had this kind of bomb dropped on her? After two weekends of family gatherings at my sister’s houses, I found out that DH feels like I never help out with my 5 year old SS. DH thinks I take excellent care of him when it’s just the three of us at home but that anytime we’re somewhere else, I apparently just let DH do all of the work and I go do whatever I want. WAIT A MINUTE!!!
I just want to scream a litany of curses right now....
So DH comes home from work..See's his "dumpling" cart blanch on the couch playing the play station and doesn't say an f ing word..(Why? Because that is secretly what he wanted all along I think..To exasperate me and make maintianing his punishment so hard on me that I give up..That way the brat is off her grounding and he can blame me for letting her off!!)