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SD coming Friday for our first week of the summer. We get her every other week during the summer and last year we did not live together so this will be new to all of us we are use to having her every other weekend but a week to a 6yr is a long time. Any way, biomom called and left dh a message that sd has a Dr appt on the 21 and if he can't take her then "He" can drop SD off to her and she will take her and meet him or his parents after wards to drop SD back off.
First things first, I would really like to know who came up with the term Blended Family. The reason I ask, and excuse me for my bluntness, but it truly is a horrible word, given the context at hand. Let me explain why. A blender is a kitchen appliance or those things that bars used to have prior to the wonderful slushy machines and like most people, whether they are divorced or not, I have a blender. It’s a nice blender, with blue liquid in it so you can actually put it into the freezer prior to use and it is supposed to keep your blended concoctions colder longer.
We currently don't have in the visitation paperwork that BM is allowed phone visitation but we were trying to be nice and try to make SS available everynight to talk to BM. However last Saturday we went out to dinner and to the park and so we missed her call. We got home late and SS was tired so we didn't call BM back.
It's now Tuesday and she's talked to SS everynight since Sunday yet she just decided to text my fiance "what happened Saturday! We tried to call SS" She keeps going on and on how we are keeping her from talking to SS etc...
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I've heard that manipulators are good at turning the tables and making their victims feel as if they are the guilty parties. Even knowing this, I can't help but question myself today and wonder if I really am as bad as STBX claims.
I have known that BM does not like me mainly because she could not get BF to marry her and that I did. She does not want me to be a part of her son's life and will do anything to get her way. We have court appointed visitations with ss every other weekend and on most weekends my BF has to work at night from 10pm to 3 am. Well, she does not like the fact that he is left with me. Two weeks ago she tried to come and pick of ss when she found out that bf was at work.
What a week. We just finished moving into our new house last weekemd and have spent the week unpacking. Of course our homephone # changed and this time, I had it unlisted but my cell number hasn't changed. So Friday I get a call from BM's attorney. She claims that BM is ready to sign the papers that states no visitation and that she also wants to add that she can't object if I want to adopt them. BUT.. ( you seen that comming, didn't you?) BM also wants DH to give up visitation of SD and to agree on no child support since she is raising one and we are raising 2 of her kids.
Of course she said yes...he claims this is the first time it was discussed....and she says, "yeah come on back." I believe they have been discussing this.....Then you all are not going 2 believe this but he had the balls 2 ask me can we still see each other, that he loves me and doesn't want 2 let me go.... OMG!!!!!!!!!!!! I said 2 him how are you claiming 2 go back for the family and do right by your ex and you still want 2 be with me. The whole conversation was mind blowing 2 me......please help me 2 understand what the hell is going on with this a#$hole...........
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