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OT- a little - there is no denying it

EvilDiva's picture

H and I are from 2 different worlds and we want vastly different lifestyles.

I am talking about everything -- how to parent children, where to live, how to make good investments. You name it, and we are polar opposites.

I love him so much, but as I told him today maybe we are just figuring out after 6 years that we are too different to peacefully co-exist.

The latest issues:

Fathers Day

melis070179's picture

Anyone have any gift ideas for Father's Day? I want it to be special for DH..this is his first real Father's Day (our son was born right after Father's Day last year) and even though SS is not his biokid, DH has never actually spent a Fathers Day with him either...so anyone have any ideas?

sd16 on bad sites

acep74's picture

we have it on good advice .. that the older sd16 is putting nude photos of herself on some very pornographic sites, and also visitng other sites. We r very concerned , this girl only last yr put a charge on a 18 yr old of sex with a minor . Makes me wonder ?
So we sent a message via face book to the ex's partner as they wont answer our phone calls.

God is testing me, I think I passed...

Sassy's picture

So yesterday, in anticipation of BM picking up SS11 (SS16 and SS17 already made plams to avoid her and were at friends houses) I put my car in the garage. You see, she likes to come to the door and even come into my house if she thinks we aren't home. So, with hubby working over and me the only one home, I thought I'd test her and mess with her a little bit too. Sure enough, she thought no one one was and came right up to the door (she never even gets out of her car if I'm home). She almost crapped herself when I was the one answering it.

Pee Pee McGee PART II

mrsparks's picture

Umm Ok, so I take my son to get his baseball pics and then DH & I decide that we'll take the boys to the mall for lunch and to get them both a belt, which they have needed for about a month now.
So first we stop at World Market to get this delicious wine that we both love and as I'm getting SS out of the car, guess what???
He has saturated his pants COMPLETELY..
DH was livid as we didn't want to have to go back home and
smacked him on the ass a good time.

ugh... some advice please, im so frustrated!

smnikki's picture

so its saturday, usually my only day off, but its our weekend with ss, so while fh is at work im watching ss4. Usually he is really good for me, but the last two times have been horrible thanks to bm and my mil. they are a true case of pas, from what ive ben reading. Last time ss informed me that he didnt want to go to my moms house because mil told him she was bad, now today he has said that if i dont do what he wants he will go live with his mom...and other crappy comments that are obviously coming from bm and mil.

Follow up to the conversation at the soccer game.....BM decided to settle after 9 months of a custody battle

tryingtokeepthesanity's picture

that she started! I just don't get it. BM started this crap in my opinion, because DH and I got married. When we were dating she wasn't really around and then when we got engaged decided she needed to spend time with the boys. I was hoping that with me in the picture she would finally step up as a Mom. BM has done some real stupid stuff since we got engaged. Then 2 months after we got married she filed for custody and continued to do stupid stuff with the kids. Like drop of SS11 (10 at the time) at Dh with no announcement then use the excuse that she cleared it with a 13 year old.

A comment got me to thinking

Anon2009's picture

recently.

The comment was made by Gisele Bundchen, who recently married Tom Brady, who has a son with his ex-GF. She said in Vanity Fair something like "just because someone else delivered him, doesn't mean that's not my son. I feel like it is, from the very first day."

Her comments drew a mixed reaction from a lot of people. Some said that she was overstepping boundaries; others said that there was nothing wrong with what she said. While her SS's mom didn't say anything, friends of hers did have some complaints, some of which I thought were/are valid.

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