ugh...bm showed up at fh work!
well yesterday she asked, but today she just showed up!
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Are we a Secret to the Skids?
I love my SS sooo much but I cannot stand to be in the presence of him and BM at the same time.
SS was chosen as Student of the Month at school for May. Today was the assembly where he got up in front of the whole school and got his certificate.
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Need help (serious) what does a 6yr old boy play with???
I'm being dead serious. I love this child and want him to grow up socially normal for his age group. The ONLY toys this kid has (no exaggeration are WWE wrestling figures.) That is what he plays 24/7..he has over 150 wrestlers.
So I went to the store today (a kid's consignment shop) to buy some toys..and I had no idea what to get him. The way he acts he is socially at a playschool age..but that will just promote his "babyish" ways. My friend's son is 6 and he plays with Nintendo DS...etc..now I don't have $$ for that right now..but seriously..I was clueless what to buy him.
Frustrated with H over SS
I've asked this question before but still don't get it; how do you keep the love you feel with H sepearate from the anger you feel when he's totally oblivious to parenting and it effects the whole family relationship? For instance: 1. SS 15 3/4 is walking distance to BM's pig sty and has no scheduled visition so he comes & goes as he pleases. Problem: He shows up only to eat, sleep, & clog the toilet if he remembers to flush. Dirty dishes are left in the sink for someone else (me) to put in the dishwasher.
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Misery sucks...I'm ready to get ME back again.
First, everybody knows I'm very unhappy with my life. I can't pinpoint it because it's EVERYTHING....work, FH, skids, BM, etc. Just everything in general has gotten me beaten down and miserable.
I've Given Up!
After the last messy incident I've given up. I know it sounds cold but I am tired of being the only one who worries about these children. After CPS and the FBI offering no assistance, I've had to concede that these children are just going to end up as victims of the system.
If my husband was willing to fight then I would absolutely keep fighting, but I can't do it all on my own. So I gave up, got a dog, and said to hell with all of them.
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IF YOU SAW YOUR CHILD 60 DAYS OUT OF THE YEAR WOULD YOU GIVE ONE DAY UP???
Well if you know my story, then you know I am SM and my DH has placement of his son 5, after 3 years of court, it went from split custody and split placement to split custody and placement with us, so BM sees her son whom she calims to love more than anything once a week and every other weekend or on average she sees him 5 days out of the month or 60 days out of the year.
Has bm ever found this site, and used it against you?
just curious. i post a lot of stuff and sometimes i worry that some how she would find it and go after my fh.
PA State Rep proposes that Welfare and CS not allowed to be used for alcohol purchases.
I am hugely supportive of this. In fact I think it should be expanded to limit Welfare and CS to staple items including only food, rent, utilities, clothing.
No liquor, beer, soft drinks, candy, etc......
Any thoughts?
how often do bm/dh talk to kids when not with them
our schedule is this
our week: monday, tuesday, friday, sat, sun with us and wed, and thurs with bm
the next week it switches, so basically the longest they go is 3 days with out seeing ss. we tried doing a week with each and he turned for the worse, too long from each parent.
anyways, who ever he is not with talks to him in the morning and at night. to me this seems to be too much. bm also calls whenever she feels like it to discuss ss, rather than waiting until the night or morning when they talk to ss.