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i realy need some advice
i have been in this relationship for over 2 years,living toghter and just get engaged ,my fiance have a son 4 and half years old ,who come every other weekend i dont like the situation my fiance havin parental guilt as well ,i dont like the kid and he dont like me , i dont do enything for him just peace but ignoring
the thing is i want to have a baby my ouwn with fiance but he dont want sayng to wait finding diferent reasons .
This is my first post and I don't really know where to begin. I'm feeling terribly alone and absolutely exhausted by my situation.
I have a 10 year old SS and a 20 month old biological son. My ss and his mother are causing way more stress than anyone could be expected to handle and my dh's method of dealing with things has left a bitter taste in my mouth.
After years of no mothers day acknowledmeng from the step kids. No thank yous, etc...I get an email from my step daughter asking why I didn't want to do something for them. And what it was was that I did not want to drive my step son to his physical therapy appointment for an injury he did on purpose for attention, sympathy and to get out of footbal practice, well that swift move got him out of the whole season and maybe permanent damage to his shoulder...but he has never treated me with respect and never been made to so I was like why should I keep doing this for him, his parent should.
As a 2nd wife/StepMom I am always supportive of the issues that arise in DH's life. Whether it be court matters, BM drama, work stuff...whatever it is. I help think of creative ways for all to be happy and "fix" these issues. How many of you feel that your DH's are equally as involved in strategizing or even remembering the drama issues in your life? Just an opinion poll.
I would totally love to post more and engage mroe in others posts/ forums but my time to do this in private is limitted. My DH would freak if I knew our dirty laundry was being aired like this. When really he should be happy because I found an outlet that will not make me bitchhis ear off, or bitch to his or my family making us look bad in his eyes. I have been friends wiht some of his sisters before I was my DH's wife so they used to be my soudning board but then he was embarrassed that I made him or his kids or our relationship look bad to his family.
i got this site from sia and its hilarious!!! i thought of it yesterday as someone protested about the correct conduct one should have while in a walmart, and knew i had seen much worse "walmart" behavior some where else!
happy Friday everyone!! ill post monday after court, keep your fingers crossed for us that the judge will come down on bm just as the mediator did!!!
I am sure many of you out there have the same problem as this.... My DH pays child support to 2 different people, well maybe not the 2 BM problem. We have always paid support before it was due and never shorted either of the BM's their money. Insurance is covered, etc. etc. etc. BM #2 wanted extra money each month, which we are paying and that is not court ordered, but she said the little extra would help out. Ok, that has been for the past few years. Well, anyway now she wants to hit us up with extra bills.
I just called our health insurance company to verify coverage for SD20. She is no longer in school therefore no longer covered under our insurance. Yet we continue to receive declined bills from the insurance company for her doctors' visits. The insurance company will no longer pay these claims.
OK, yesterday was my clothes complaint. Today is my living arrangements complaint. Now before I go any further I know there is nothing I can do about this...I'm just interested in what others think of this situation.
BM still lives in the same house that she and DH bought together. She is remarried and new H's kids live there now. He has 3 kids, she has 2 and they just had one together - 6 kids.
Which is why I haven't blogged in a while... My ss8 has been going to counselling, so he's been a pretty happy kid lately which is great. I am soo irritated today though, and it's mostly with my DH...but whatever... My ss8 is getting so fat. I know that sounds terrible, but it's true. I wish that I could be his mother and help him out! All this kid talks about is food and movies... it irritates me so much because I know if it was my kid, I could do something about it.
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