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Everyone give me some pointers here. over the course of the years and even longer than my DH and I have been together my DH has been questioning whether his oldest son is his. He has stated to me that BM was messing around on him around the time of conception and he sees the guy that she was rumored to be sleeping with a lot. SS14 is built more like this guy and has same skin complexion. Now I told DH that if SS14 is his child then no harm done, but if not what will he do then? He's had full custody of both of his kids for 5 years now.
I posted an update about DH & I's situation with SD15, her SD(step-dad), and BM. Well along with DH and BM finally working out the custody agreement the other night....BM wasn't happy until they worked out some type of visitation schedule. So here is there schedule.... SD15 (who now lives with us) will go to BM's for one week over her Christmas break (SD15 gets 2 weeks off at Christmas). So SD15 goes from the Sunday before Christmas until the day after Christmas.
Hello all, it has been awhile...but have a question. My SS14 had me and his father blocked from his facebook account. we would mention it in passing and he would always say that his mother did this, and then go on to explain how he has only blocked one person before and it wasn't us. so if you know facebook you know that when u block someone you see the list of who you have blocked...well he finally unblocked his father but not me.
I don't want to sound petty, I really don't, but I have to let this out.
BM NEVER buys new clothes for SD's. Everything the SD's wear from her house is a hand-me-down. Now, I don't mind hand-me-down's. In fact, SD5 wears a lot of SD6's old clothes. However, these hmd's are not worn, stained or too small.
Over the past year I have met the most awsome man, and I love him. The problem lies with his children and his ex wife. I have been villified by his ex to the point that the kids refuse to meet me, the kids are 13 and 17, and have been the center of my boyfreinds life, his ex has done everything in her power to destroy our relationship and his relationship with the kids. When we moved in together 4 months ago the kids refused all but any contact that got them rewarded ie shopping for clothes.
Need opinions, I'm a little confused with BM. DH and I register (with consent from BM)SD for softball. At the time BM's work hours were 3pm-11pm which made it impossible for her to transport SD to and from games, we totally understood, therefore SM and DH not only offer to provide transportation (it would be me most of the time, my schedule is the most flexible), equipment and cost for everything pertaining to softball. Before the 1st game BM changed jobs. She now works 7am-3pm. Games are once a week and after 6pm. BM's new job is literally 2 min from her hm.
I've been reading this site for a few weeks now and find myself agreeing with alot of what you say. Here is my background:
I have a DS9. His father is in prison and has been for over a year. he has a few more years of time to serve. I was divorced from XH when DS was 3 and XH has always been a POS; rarely came to see DS for visits, never paid CO CS, was a total bad influence and role model to DS. Of course now that XH is in prison he has once again been saved and is promising DS the world when he gets out.
In August I told my Husband that I was struggling with the relationship with my stepson. I told him that I wasn't sure if I could continue on with how it was going. My stepson and I don't hug very often or give goodnight kisses. I don't want to pressure him into hugging me or telling me that he loves me when I'm not sure if he does. I also feel that my ss tries to manipulate me, dh, and bm. He tells lies about me to his bm and that all blows up into a huge mess. Her and her family slander me on the internet and to anyone who is willing to listen.
I have noticed that boys are so much easier than girls. They might rough house and are always getting into mischief but girls whine ALOT. Maybe its just my personal situation. My step daughter is only 3 i have been there from day 1. Yet she treats me like i am the worst person she has ever met. She cries all the time for no reason. I ask her if she is hurt or if someone was mean to her and she wont answer me. I am getting very frustrated. Even my boys try to comfort her and she just continues crying! HELP!!!!!
I'm in tears after talking to my mom today. My entire family (Mom/dad/grandparents etc) all have more than a few issues they dislike about DH. They believe he is controlling, self centered, and has alienated me from those I have previously been close too. To some extent they do have valid points. DH can be extremely pushy when it comes to getting his own way, and likes to argue/banter to prove his point.They feel that his number one priority has been and will continue to be the skids and his family.
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