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not sure how to try.....

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Because my bf's teenage children dont want to meet me, and think that I am the wicked witch of the North, Im not sure how I should be acting with them. Every Haloween I make candy apples and little treats up for my kids and the neighbourhood kids, and I want to include them on these sorts of things my bf thinks that they will refuse the apples but as petty as it seems I think that he should try so that they know that I am trying. Should I be leaving it alone, or putting myself out there for them, it seems fair that they get treated the same as my kids are....

Help Im so helpless

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Over the past year I have met the most awsome man, and I love him. The problem lies with his children and his ex wife. I have been villified by his ex to the point that the kids refuse to meet me, the kids are 13 and 17, and have been the center of my boyfreinds life, his ex has done everything in her power to destroy our relationship and his relationship with the kids. When we moved in together 4 months ago the kids refused all but any contact that got them rewarded ie shopping for clothes.