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I have been considering giving a photo card to my stepkids mother even though her and I do not get along. The photo is of my two teenage stepsons, my two year old son, and my 9 month old step-grandson. I am hoping this might give her some sense that we can share the grandchild. She recently became angry w/ my stepdaughter b/c she let me babysit on a day I requested. I refuse to fight over the grandson. I have already spent years dealing with her regarding my three stepkids. What do you think?
I have been reading the Blogs this week and it seems like there are an awful lot of us ready to call it quits lately. It seems like those of us with these feelings all have similar issues. I'm including myself when I refer to these postings because I have found myself feeling like the end of my marriage is near. My husband and I have decided to try marriage counseling and have our first session next week.
not because of dh, but because of all he comes with.
a psycho cunt mother in law. a pathetic lazy fat ex wife that harasses you. family (inlaws) that pretend to be nice to you to get things from you like 500 dollars worth of vip rose parade tickets because i get them every year for free, but expect you to be "the bigger person" and feel bad because bm has a crappy life, and stay friends with her on mysapce and still send her xmas cards.
other inlaws that avoid you like the plague because mil is such a bitch, and no one wants to be held accountable for their actions.
My son, my son, my son. I've completley had it with him. I'm done. No more of the nice mommy. I'm totally done. I should have done it before, but I think I must have had brain damage or something. But now, I'm done.
My husband told me 2 yrs ago (I think,sometimes I don't pay attention when he talks-hehe) that BM received stolen property from her brother and pawned the stuff. Apparently the cops were involved and they found out it was her. So all this time has passed and now it caught up to her. So DH (they were never married, I just don't know what to call him in regards to her) got a phone call yesterday saying she wasn't working bc her recent ex told their boss (they work at the same place) she was going to Criminal Court. So now she's suspended until it's over with.
Wow!!! Praises to the good Lord up above that for a change all is going well in my life. I'm filled with joy beyond joy! ^_^
I had previously failed a very important exam (that unfortunately, I later found out I was missing 3 important chapters needed as a prep for the exam). Fortunately, during my last study prep for my retake, I discovered the missing info & brought it to the attention of my school & passed my exam with flying colors! Yay!!!!
SS11 called me a work the other day. He NEVER calls me at work. His litle voice on the other end of the line was so cute. 
He didn't even say hello. He just said (my name), Thomas's mom wants to talk to you.
I just hate this stage in a child's life. They are so self-absorbed, self-centered little adults with no clue as to the real world. Part of me just wants to kick both SD16 and BS15 out for a bit to get a taste and appreciation of all we do for them.
I am thinking about taking both to a local homeless shelter and soup kitchen just to see, but I still don't think it will get through. This entitlement of kids today is so annoying. A couple of years ago even my kids hated hearing kids act the way they are now acting---arghhh
I don't understand why DH refuses to file papers for child support. We have had SS for 6 months and BM has not given nor has she done anything for SS. DH says that since we don't receive any support from my son's BD then the kids are even. I disagree. I have taken my son's father for child support and he refuses to pay. He would rather run from the law than to pay. We have literally received $1000 in 14 years. My DH has accepted that fact, but at the same time refuses to file papers on his EX.
I haven't posted in a long time. Last time, when my nasty (adult) stepbrats stormed my house and threatened my life, I was called a Drama Queen for being frightened and needing support. This time I'm just amazed.
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