PLEASE HELP! NEED ADVICE

OK, If your husband's ex-wife never had a schedule hardly seen her soon and hated you, and demanded she can get her soon from you whenever and cursed you out in front of your own baby gave the finger and all wouldn't you be furious? Well that's what happened. she flipped out on me cause she wanted to get her son at 9am agian on a friday. And I said in the future if you want to get him can you get him after 10am? bEcause I have a baby and him and his brother don't sleep well. So for me I rather not have to rush and get the kids up (who share a room) earlier than I have to. She said no I'll get my son whenever I want. Now She has always hated me because she never wanted a divorce, she has a boyfriend now but is one of those moms who used there child anyway to cause trouble. she ahardly sees him because she don't want to. I simple asked here this time I will but next time maybe you can get him the night before or after 10. Does that sound bad? Well she flipped out and now My husaband is mad at me.Now during her flipping out I didn't curse or flip her off , even though I wanted to. But my husabnd and his parents said there is nothing wrong with 9am and I should of never brought it up to her. I get no support or back up from my husaband and I'm getting really tired of it. please tell me who is wrong. I've been in my stepsons life since he was 2. his mother never no schedule just come and goes. I'm more mad at my husband for not backing me up. If I say I don't want to get the kids up rush and deal with b*ch*y her in the morning before 10 than I think he should just say ok next time she needs to go around my schedule or get him the night before. He didn't he says its my fault and oh yea WE never are going to meet agian and she keep here son for a week which she never does just to pay u back. I don't know if I can get over this. He says the rest of the world are up by 9am and there was no reason why you couldn't.Yea I'm up jsut barely from a night of crys and tears from a rough nigh from the kids but that doesn't matter. he says EVERYone elese would see I'm wrong. And ITS all my fault now that she has to go around my husbands schedule only now. And everything is messed up cause she pissed.WHAT!!!
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I'd be tired of it too. Let

I'd be tired of it too. Let your husband get up at 9am then and deal with BM. Don't EVER deal with her. If she disrespects you like that and is obviously trash, then I'd tell my husband that she is his problem and to never, ever make me deal with her!

thank you for you comment.

thank you for you comment. I've been in my stepsons life since he was 2. his mother never no schedule just come and goes. I'm more mad at my husband for not backing me up. If I say I don't want to get the kids up rush and deal with b*ch*y her in the morning before 10 than I think he should just say ok next time she needs to go around my schedule or get him the night before. He didn't he says its my fault and oh yea WE never are going to meet agian and she keep here son for a week which she never does just to pay u back. I don't know if I can get over this. He says the rest of the world are up by 9am and there was no reason why you couldn't.Yea I'm up jsut barely from a night of crys and tears from a rough nigh from the kids but that doesn't matter. he says EVERYone elese would see I'm wrong. And ITS all my fault now that she ahs to go around my husbands schedule only now.

To hell with it.... He is

To hell with it.... He is the kids father - she is the kids mother. If he can not see how waking the other kids up could cause issues... then let him deal with her. I would take myself completely out of it.

Let her and him work out when she picks up her kid - that way you don't have to deal with it.

********She doesn't have to love me or even like me - it doesn't change a dang thing..... So get over it and move on BM!************

You know what i would have

You know what i would have said to my hubbby. I woudl have said, I AM YOUR WIFE, THIS IS MY SCHEDUAL! YOU ARE NOT MARRIED TO HER AND SHE DOESN'T LIVE HERE . I DONT CARE WHO GETS UP AT WHATEVER TIME. THIS IS THE TIME I WANT.
1. I never want to deal with your ex ever again.
2. i will not wake up and be schedualed around her times.
3. YOU will get up and get yoru son ready for her when the pick up comes.
4. Your son will sleep elsewhere the night before as to not disturb our kids.
5. This is my schedual under my house
6. I am tired of waking up with 2 other children every night and then have to get them up again just to please your ex.
Its not gonna happen and if you dont like, too bad. Why should our kids suffer because of yoru ex wife schedual.
YOU WILL NOT INVOVLE OUR KIDS WITH HER. YOU WILL NOT MAKE OUR KIDS SUFFER BECAUSE OF HER.
Your son will sleep on the couch or elsewhere before the pick ups. I'm goining to sleep and so are our kids. Who have sleeping problems It doesnt' matter if the world wakes up by 9 . Soem people wake up at 5...who cares. My schedual is 10am RESPECT MY SCHEDUAL. RESPECT ME AND WHAT I WANT.