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Quick background: DH is the primary caregiver inspite of their 50/50 arrangement. BM attends sporting events and thats that. No appointments, religious instruction (even though she is a member of the church and lives .5 mile), no parent conferences, she never even taught SD how to put on a standard bra besides a cammie. BM is a perfect case study for PAS. She also has had at least 5 live in boyfriends in the past 6 years (no kidding). SD will cling to DH, hang all over him with I love you daddy stuff, gets super jealous when my kids hug him or shoot hoops kinda thing.
Good news, I'm pregnant 6 weeks. I'm so happy always wanted a 2nd child and my last. I don't plan on telling BM before she does something psycho...I guess SS will notice when I'm showing. I guess he could tell his mother himself. I feel nausea most of the day, if anyone has any suggestions on how to deal w/that let me know, thanks.
Ok according to the legal agreement that has been in place for 4 years we get one visit a month (because they live so far away it would be more if they where closer) and every other Easter and Christmas. So we got my sd for a weekish from the 24th of March to the 30th of March. The thing is; this is our Easter and the long weekend is 4 days after she is back to school. I think her mother set this up on purpose. The last thing I want is for her to miss school, so what would and alternate choice be? I feel like we are being ripped off. Any opinions?
DJ
So I should have known something was wrong when ss actually called us. Turns out, it wasn't even ss, it was good old Ms. Perfect herself calling last night. She was calling to inform us that we would have to take ss to have his baseball pics taken, and take him to his first game on Saturday. Now she has had this information since he was chosen for the team, possibly earlier.
Think on this for a sec:
I posted on my blog earlier this:
" Never regret something that made you once smile",
I got some pretty down hearted responces on it, People feeling the hard times, But heres what I know:
Okay so PLEASE be honest with me and tell me if I am wrong…this could get pretty long but I will do my best to keep it short…my husband and I just go into it and honestly I don’t even know where this came from…so here is the back ground…his sister is not a bad mother per say but she definitely leaves a lot to be desired. She has really bad choice in men and pretty low standards when it comes to what she wants in life in general.
Today is BF and my 3 year anniversary. I am so lucky to be loved by someone as wonderful and perfect for me as he is. So why do I need to vent? Because on this wonderful day, a day in which I have received lots of good news of career moves and promotions at work; this day on which we celebrate the beginning of our fourth year together, BM is still as relentlessly vindictive and unnecessarily troublesome as ever. So much good has come of this day, and I know I shouldn't let her get me down...but she still does.
Mic went through the usual trying to talk to ss yesterday. She had finally turned the phone off just a little before his bedtime ( I can only assume she got tired of hearing it ring). I told Mic that he should think about calling again about 8:15 (when ss should be in bed reading-lights out at 8:30- we don't like to interrupt then, be it wasn't like he hadn't tried earlier). So he calls again at 8:25, and of course, the phone was back on. SS finally picks up. When Mic asked about his day, etc. he said that he and his mom were out for a walk, after dark. Hmmm...
I read earlier today someone's comment regarding 'we do not e-mail anyone of the opposite sex'. Along those lines I have a male e-mail friend I work with. I also work with my BF of 3 years. My BF definitely puts his kids ahead of me and he makes no committments to me regarding anything changing in our relationship, very clear (we are monogamous and love each other). I have e-mailed my friend for about 2 years now. He just recently broke up from a 10 relationship/engagement. We discuss all kinds of things..I have given him advice on his relationship and vice versa.
I don't even know how to begin I am so mad at the ex I could spit nails. Yesterday I had to be at work at 5am so that left h2b to get my boys off to school (which is not always easy the youngest is not at all a morning person) anyway I get a call at 7:15 saying he can't take it anymore we have to figure out something with the little one.
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