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Tell me if you think it is weird for a father to sleep with his daughter of 13?
I stopped back in at home this morning before I went to work and my husband was in daughter's bed with her. I don't know that he has ever done this before, I know he used to sleep w/her when she was younger and his ex-wife (3rd wife) didn't like it.
Part of me thinks it's not right, but then again mothers and daughters often sleep together - I know my sis and I did sleep with our mom once in awhile up to the age of 15 (I don't remember exact age).
For those that know my story....my SO and I thought he had lost his boys (ages 18 and 20)forever, or at least until they get out from under BM. She has used every alienation tactic that exists to get her kids to hate their dad and me.
Well today I find out that BM has called DH to see if I can watch SS and the other 3 kids while she works. I would not have a problem with it if it was only SS and she would work a normal(7am-7pm)job. She is married to a man that only works from 7am-5pm Monday thru Friday. She did not have to find a job, she did this on her own. She has qualifications to office work, so that she could still be there for her kids, but where does she go to work at? A bar, now I don't knock anyone that works in a bar, but for her this is THE ONLY PLACE SHE WANTS TO WORK!! So why do I have to watch her kids?
Ok, so we pay almost 400 a month is child support for ss7. DH and I have a 5 month old baby (so money is always tight.) So my question is, how much other stuff are we suppose to provide, like I mean we pay the 400, and BM asked us to buy all the back to school clothes and the school fee, and stuff like that. So what are we suppose to provide? Should that be in the child support order, should we get it put in?? I'm reluctant to buy extra stuff, well except for like clothes when he need them, or occasional things if that makes any sence. Or spliting the cost with her. But really??
Ok, for the past several months, we have not had any contact with SS11. We have been uncertain as to his whereabouts, b/c BB has been moving back and forth, not returning calls, etc. Recently, I saw her blog on myspace (posted in my previous blog)and realizing that she was moving out of her mom's, to an apt. of her own. SS would not be living w/her. To make matters worse she was leaving him w/her felonious mother. Which means he will be going out on numerous repos(his GM chosen profession)on school nights, just like the good ol' days.
I don't know if I should report my sd to the authorities bc I don't think that her father is going to get her any help for her actions.She is supposed to be coming back Tuesday to start school.I'm just afraid that she's going to think that she can get away with what she did again with no consequences.I tried to google some help on abusive children but I only get abused children.Any advice on what to do?
Well, we didn't win the powerball last night LMAO....someone in Indiana just won 314 million....was wondering if that was any one here.. man I can't tell you the hours BF and I have spent laughing and planning how that would go LOL...what would you do if you found out you had just won 314 million? LOL
well guys it's the end of our weekend access and let me tell you i'm on the verge of tears yet again. i never thought i could hate this woman any more then i already do but guess what i do, i'm just so angry at this absolute cow....
if you've read my previous blogs you would know that we had some drama on friday about bm returning sd items to our house and then on saturday sd asked about joining tap and jazz.
well saturday we emailed bm with a terms and conditions list of enroling sd into the dance classes and text to to make sure she read it prior to pick up tonight.
Hi new here. age 37 married to DH 48, 2 SSs 15 & 17, 2 DSs together 3 & 1. All resident with us. Wishing my life away till they leave home, as they don't seam to be making a move towards Biomums home.
Today I am so drained...Every day feels like a struggle trying to communicate with my husband. Everything is misinterpreted!!! All I know is we constantly have "power struggles." Today we fought over which pan to make eggs in. I'm losing it!! Honestly, I feel if I just keep my mouth shut about everything, and do not make any suggestions (whether it's about our kids or not, or whether my idea is better or not) and just become a yes person, life may be smoother.
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