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So dh just called me from work. SS7 had called him crying. he said he doesn't want to come here anymore. that he's unhappy and all dh does is lay on the couch. and that he never wants to come back. this is totally untrue. he is always happy here. we had a great christmas. we even had a big christmas party on saturday with my family, where he got a bunch of gifts. my family treats him just like one of there own grandkids. BM said she not going to spend him if he's unhappy. but i'm like what? BM's mom is in town, and shes a complete bi***. so we are thinking this is a big show for her.
I’ve had some challenges the past few months that upset me, but what surprised me most was my ability to rebound from them. No matter how down & depressed I feel, I can still find humor in the world & myself. I can still poke fun at my challenges, which makes them seem less… well… challenging. And the reason I noticed this is because when I was feeling my lowest I was still able to laugh at silly things. I was able to feel joy, even in the midst of my sadness.
Wow I gotta tell someone. So took 2 pregnancy tests and those d*mn pink lines are brighter than the sun! Dont get me wrong I wanted children but we've only been married for a little over a month! Just getting SD to trust me and now she's gonna be mad again.
We're not going to tell anyone though for two months. It's too early to tell because I should only be a few weeks pregnant.
What have been your experiences with babies and SC? Was is horrible?
My DH & I moved away from FL. to Mass, with our baby....his EX lives in Fl. with his 2 teen kids, for the sake of our sanity & safety we had to move, we had exausted all other avenues, and my family, and some of DH's family live up here, this was our hometown. So far things have been pretty peaceful, it will be great to raise our son up here. We have blocked communication with the EX, but I dread dealing with "visitation time", when his kids are going to come. She expects us to pay for all their travel tickets....we plan on telling her she can deduct some of it out of C.S.
read my recent blog know what has been happening this Christmas. But there is something I would like to ask you. BM tried to manipulate MY husband by threatening to take the kids away if I didn't quit with the drama. I don't want her to have the last say. I want to throw it in her face that if she EVER tries that again I will persue turning her in for fraud on a government document. Which would make her pay back all payments made and possibly jail time. Also DH could go back on some tax returns and claim SS and make her back pay.
Septic tank snares D.M. man
BY TOM BARTON
REGISTER STAFF WRITER
Christmas Eve downright stunk for Robert Schoff of Des Moines, but he was able to laugh about it by Tuesday.
Firefighters had to rescue the 77-year-old when he got stuck in the opening to his septic tank.
He had dug a hole and reached inside to find a clog when he lost his balance and became wedged.
"It wasn't good, I'll tell you what," said Schoff, of 4300 N.E. 27th St. "It was the worst Christmas Eve I've ever had,"
First before I go into this I want everyone to know that I don't agree with her one bit about this...I signed up for therapy to help me through all of the bullcrap that has been going on..I went once and it was the last time. I started by telling her the basics of what goes on in our house, with the ex wife, and BF's family and how SS is a spoiled brat and he doesn't respect me so I disengaged...she told me stepparents shouldn't disengage if they're in it for the long haul and that I'm the adult and I should just deal with all of this. DEAL WITH IT??!!
I have been with this man for 2 years. When I met him he was living with his daughter for only 1 year. He bought her a car for her 16th bday. She moved back with her mother after dropping out of high school. He took the car away. At 18 she went back to school and graduated. GREAT! He bought her another car. She told him that she didn't need him anymore so we picked up the car sent her no more money. (By this time she was living with some boy) Now 2 months later she is back with us after a year and a half. She thinks she can come back in and take over. Husband says be patient.
Hi everyone..
I have read how many of tried disengaging.. and I really need to know how to do it. Let me give you a synopsis of my past few days...
Well this shouldn't surprise me, I've know that my dh's sister is a sabotager and she loves to meddle his dh's business with his son. Months have gone by, and no phone call for a Christmas list, heck we didn't even get invited to any of his bball games (we were asked to pay for it but not invited to watch...). So Christmas comes, he calls that a.m., not to wish us a merry Christmas, but to see what time he would get his gifts.
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