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SIL asks dh to return Christmas gift!

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Well this shouldn't surprise me, I've know that my dh's sister is a sabotager and she loves to meddle his dh's business with his son. Months have gone by, and no phone call for a Christmas list, heck we didn't even get invited to any of his bball games (we were asked to pay for it but not invited to watch...). So Christmas comes, he calls that a.m., not to wish us a merry Christmas, but to see what time he would get his gifts.

Can you teach time management?!!

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I swear this woman never ceases to amaze me. She is constantly running at the very last minute of every event. School is suppose to start tomorrow in our area, ss is already registered for his school. BM has a younger child starting kindergarten, and she is scrambling to get him enrolled into school!! It's the night before school starts and she is just now trying to get him registered!!!!

This is the same woman that said it was better for her 13 year old to live with us b/c of the structure and stability, and then 1.5 months later said.."but ss wants to live with me!"

Living with emotional baggage

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Sometimes I wonder why I selected a man that was so previously abused by another woman, why did I take on the emotional baggage. Sure my dh is a great looking guy, who has a heart of gold, except that is towards his wife. Why is it that when a man finally finds a woman that has done nothing but seriously stand by his side during numerous court hearings, battled with in-laws, and helped him run a business w/o asking anything in return, why is it that a man still can not learn to trust again?

BM is mad...and now wants to put a "kabosh" on the parenting plan

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So we send ss packing to return to live with his impossible mother, 38 days later she calls and complains that she is sick of him, and wants dh to find a summer camp she can dump him into.

A week ago, my sil stopped by our business to chat. She is getting married this summer, and it is an out of town wedding. So we have already made the arrangements to go to the wedding. Sil has also arranged for a dinner crusie the evening of her wedding on a lake. She has been asking if we are going on the dinner cruise. Sil and pyscho bm are bff.

The straw broke the camel's back tonight.....

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Today my dh got a phone call from ss's school. He had been horsing around in school, and even though he was told twice to discontinue, he didn't listen and got in trouble. My dh came home from work, grounded ss and gave him a stern talking to about how important school is, and how he isn't entitled to distrupt other students in school. Then ss just laughed at his dad. My dh got in his face to let him know he was walking a fine line.

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