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Hi, DH and I are trying to get BM to see a mediator with him so that all can avoid court. She not only refuses, but says that she thinks it will not be fair. A neutral party not fair, what? I think she is just afraid of the mediator pointing out all of her mistaken "obligations" she feels DH owes her, none of which are based on law. So, get this, she has said that she and her husband will draft something up, and give it to DH to see if he is agreeable. Oh yea, I'm sure that will be fair.
so dh moved out last night. he wrote me a really nice letter and my best friend and i sat there and read it through blinding tears. love is hard, marriage is hard, especially when dh is super stupid. i am taking things one day at a time. i am really proud of myself though. i did it. i stood my ground and demanded respect. you can't just f#ck me over and expect me to come back for more. he said he isn't giving up, that he will prove to me he is the one. i think it would take a miracle. i also had an hour with my shrink last night. gotta love professional help.
BM has 4 kids, 4 different guys and I find out yesterday that I'm pregnant but have so many complications already that I won't be able to carry the baby to term.
ast night my husband came home from work and asked where SD16 was. I was cooking dinner which we have at the same time everynight.Of course she was in her room all afternoon, door closed, sitting under the covers chatting on line with her boyfriend. After dinner my husband took her to the grocery store because she had complained that the reason she wanted to leave the island we live on and drive around was to find something to eat. SHe told him she doesn't like our food. I didn't fall for it but my husband did- hook, line and sinker.
I just read this & I thought some people could relate to it. I know I can...
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getting 2 of SKs full time. I am kinda iffy about it. The situtation is that BM is too busy running behind a pair of nuts and a penis to be a mother to SKs. So right now they are being raised by BMs mother and step father. Its like STBH said its his responisbility to raise his kids. I understand that honestly i do but at the same time he works 12 hrs graveyard shifts. So when he is at work they would be at home with me. Which means it will be on me to cook dinner, help with homework, comb hair, put to bed, etc. BM is psychotic. I don't think that she would let this happen.
just wondering if anyone knows the law here in kentucky. and no, he's not my cousin, hardy har har. 
but seriously, we have no kids, i purchased the house by myself before we married, my car is in my name and paid off, and i'm really not worried about the credit card that we shared prior to marriage...i just want something simple and easy, and cheap! plus i have these questions if anyone knows...
I'm having a tough time lately. I read about disengaging and pretty much disengaged with BM. Things have been good in that regard for the past 6 months or so. Problem now? I'm about to be the primary parent in both my SD's life, and I'm "only" the stepmother.
Hi all,
well this past weekend they came for a visit,me and dh are trying to work things out.the golden child had some homework to to on sunday night of course she wants to do it when im trying to work things out...and of course he say ok ( i will help you) homework time in this house are awful dh and her big fights break out between them.so i knew whats was comming....so i went to my room while they did homework and of course the big fight...yelling screaming kicking and slamming doors she when into her old room.
Okay, so my DH obviously did something pretty good, right? Well, as I mentioned in other posts, I finally spoke my mind after 4 years to BM, nothng degrading or diminishing, simply the facts as I saw them. But I had never done that before, so she was none too pleased about it. She is now saying that she is going to take us to court, which we are preparing for. I think it will actually be good, because she has so much money, and we go so above and beyond what is ordered with finances, transportation and visitation, that things may actually finally get to some semblance of fair.
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