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BF and I took STBSD4 to Disney ealier this summer. It was her first trip and she loved it. A couple weeks ago, BM tells us that she and her BF are taking her again along with her BF's son (who has never been before). Cool, we think. SD4 is so excited and going on and on about her favorite rides, things she wants to do again, and places she wants to show BM.
They are leaving today. So when SD4 was with us this past Wednesday, I asked her if she was all ready for her trip. Had she told her mommy what rides were her favorite. etc.
I have been marriend to my best friend for almost 4 years. We were great friends for many many years prior to getting married. My husband has been divorced for almost 9 years, he was married for almost 6 years. He has two children(son 12 and daughter 11) I have a 14 year old boy. My son is with me full time and does not have any contact with his father and we do everyother week with my husbands children. His EX is now and always has been a complete nightmare.
I personally feel that this relationship can go on with me and him. we enjoy each others company and communicate well. i have not said anything bad to her. remember that she is dating someone and her bf can see the kids but she does not want me to see the kids. i have mad it known that i dont want the kids to know yet and i am slowly going into this relationship. why can i not date him if she has been dating since they have been separated.
Okay. To start off everyone should know that my boyfriends soon to be ex wife told him about 5-6 months that she didnt love him anymore and had not loved him for about 2-3 years. He was hurt badly by this especially since there youngest daughter is a little over a year old. They have been separted for about 5 months now. Me and him have been dating for a month and a half. Him and i decided to keep our relationship between us and our familys until the divorce was offically over because she is a very jelous person.
In my last blog, I said how BM was now insinuating that my husband isn't SD8's father. Well, she finally came right out & admitted it.
I met my husbands kids twice while still dating, SD 6yrs and SS 5yrs. They disappeared for four years, and in Feb. 2008 they appeared again and I got to meet stepdaughter again for the third time which felt like the first she was now 10yrs old. She didn't realize who her father was until she was told who he was therefore they didn't know each other either. We started to see them every other weekend after that and in April of 2008 I found out I was pregnant. Soon after SD started to insist that she move in with us and my husband started making plans.
I dont believe ive had the chance to really tell my story. Whenever ive confided in a friend, ive held back some of what is really going on in my head because I was afraid they would think I was a bad person. Finding this website was a blessing because I have been holding everything in for sooo long that I felt like I was going to explode! So, with that being said, below is my whole story. I already feel a great sense of relief in knowing that at the end of this blog I will have let it all out! I look forward to being a active member on Steptalk!
I had to talk to the BM at least 10 times today. We have primary custody, and today was the first time all summer she was going to have all three kids at the same time. She and her hubby and the kids are going on a camping trip and visiting Civil War battle sites in southern Missouri. (The kids are so excited, they can hardly contain themselves! NOT)
So DH's ex wants us to meet half way between Indiana and North Carolina to take SD back to her. We can only do this next week due to DH's work schedule and our son's school schedule. DH's ex doesn't know how to manage money and says that doesn't work for her. The ex said she would call so we could talk about arrangements, but instead when DH calls her, she's at a bar. Ex only calls when she wants money, even though she's paid child support. Ex also says she has no money...but she's in the military and makes 2 times the amount we do.
SD 10 and SD 7 are coming over Friday evening to spend the allotted weekend with us. DH usually picks them up after six, due to work. I announce to him that tomorrow evening, I will be going out for 'Happy Hour' with the girls. His face goes pale, I can see his panties getting into a twist right then and there because 'happy hour' will conflict with the SD's arrival.
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