I met my husbands kids twice while still dating, SD 6yrs and SS 5yrs. They disappeared for four years, and in Feb. 2008 they appeared again and I got to meet stepdaughter again for the third time which felt like the first she was now 10yrs old. She didn't realize who her father was until she was told who he was therefore they didn't know each other either. We started to see them every other weekend after that and in April of 2008 I found out I was pregnant. Soon after SD started to insist that she move in with us and my husband started making plans.