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Another weekend with the kids this weekend. 2 weekends ago when we had them it was a cryfest all night long because they 'missed mommy.' Like I said in my last blog post.. this crying thing is new... we've had the kids every other weekend at my place since the BF moved in back in July. This crying and waking up at 2am to call BM thing is new.
Last time she blamed it on me!
This is my first blog ever, so that being said I'm obviously frustrated. Sorry for the length
I have 2 boys of my own 16 & 5. The 16 yr old is with me ft the 5 is 1/2. My boyfriend has 2 a 17 yr old boy and a 15 yr old girl who live out of state with the BM.
So DH/BM & Guardian are at this meeting - BM sits down and says she agrees to our original proposal for custody which consists of:
SS every weekend
All holidays
all summer
full or joint custody
NO CHILD SUPPORT
DH picks up
BM picks up from our house on Sundays
Everyone at the table was shocked that BM is agreeing to anything, but DH calmly says- Oh believe me, as soon as this proposal is to be court ordered, BM will decide against everything.
Thanks for the encouraging words of those who actually read my long rant yesterday 
We had SD's confirmation meeting last night at our church (BM and her hubby came for info though they aren't members). DH was hanging out with the kids (SD,SS and BD) so I went over to the table to pick up SD's catechism, folder etc since the skids are with us for the first 4 Wednesdays when SD has her meetings (DH and BM have 50/50 placement). I head back by DH and the kids and just start paging through the papers and I look up to see BM and her husband headed directly over to us.
When I was picking up the skids yesterday from MIL's house where they go after school, BM drove up behind me. She said tell FH that in the next couple of days I'm going to be taking SD10 to get start the Gardasil vaccine. She said, "She's old enough to get it now and since it runs in both sides of the family I think it's a good idea."
Uh, what part of FH having sole custody does she not get? Obviously, she doesn't get the part about him having the end all, be all say on skids receiving ANY medical services.
Okay...not to be the b*tch but I really don't like this time of year. The reason is football. Harry (SS10) plays. It's not the fact that he plays football (I love the game) and its not that we have to pay for anything (we don't, BM covers the costs on extra curricular activities)...its the drive. We live 2 1/2 hours away and on our weekends with the boys we have to drive to the mid-point on Friday evening to pick them up and then on Saturday morning we have to drive the whole way to get him there by gametime and then we have to drive back.
I have had to take a leave from the site due to back surgery that i had weeks ago, but it never amazes me that i come back on here to find that BM are still crazy as hell...is it me or are real moms from Mars and BM from Venus....chime in and lets vote on who has the craziest BM...and second question is who husbands as endured the most....come ladies chime in...
1. Craziest BM
2. DH endures the most....
Well to our surprise BM went to court saying she worked out the differences with DH, SM and his family. They came to the table ready to negotiate.
So the judge instead of actually letting the hearing go forward. They worked out a new court order.
None of our evidence had to be submitted - so we still have all of it... in case she messes up again (which i am confident she will) we will be able to submit it to the court instead of losing it in this case.
It has been put in the court order......
Just proof to me that he feels guilty for only having his daughter EOW. But that's all BM will allow, it's not his fault. Last night my BD(4) was kind of whimpering that her back was itching (she has severe eczema) and of course I reached over to start scratching her back for her. FH made some snide comment stating how my daughter has me "wrapped". I retorted, "my daughter has me no more 'wrapped' than your daughter has you 'wrapped'". The point I was trying to get across was that I love my child just as much as he loves his, and that he needs to stop downing me for it.