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I hate it when DH talks down to me -same as BM!

livinthedream's picture

In a conversation today with DH...he started talking down to me ..very similiar to how he talks down to BM. I put up a stink about it & he told me that he totally meant what he said. Basically, he told me that he is angry with me for cutting our grocery budget. I may have cut our food budget (just like everyone is doing in this recession) but I have been cooking my butt off. It is very disrepectful of him. I didnt mention that his budget has increased..he's going into credit debt to pay for beer, trips to see SD at college & various other extras we cant afford.

um,

passleft's picture

a little embarrassing...i'm trying to pick up on all the little acronyms, but what exactly does DH mean? I'm pretty sure we are talking about the father of the SC, but I feel uncomfortable using this acronym when I don't know what it means! hehe

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How many of you are also the Mother of his child, the Golden Uterus?

BMJen's picture

I am. I'm the mother of my husbands baby.......our baby girl together is the family "baby".

So every time I hear the excuse of, she's the mother of his child, yep.......so am I sister!

I like that she no longer has any status with him that I don't have. What about you guys?

My story

footnmouth's picture

Well, let's see. I became a mom at an early age and divorced at an early age. I met my current hubby after my divorce and we fell head over heels, but because he wanted children of his own, and I wasn't able to provide them, we parted so that he could pursue that dream. Well, as fate would have it,fifteen years later we bumped into each other again and we were both single. The DH at first didn't go into detail about his family life and I didn't ask many questions, but after a few months I began to notice some of the stuff that was going on in his life.

Not Looking Forward to the Weekend...

Ani's picture

My boyfriend's son he is 12 years old and pretty much every weekend he is with us he spoils it with the way he behaves. So even with all my good ideas of fun things to do with him like craving a pumpkin, baking and decorating Halloween cookies with him....he will act up when ever he is told not to do something or to do something as simple as take a shower, pick your room, brush your teeth or do you homework. So my weekend from hell starts today after school.....Help!!!

Isn't having "some" money better than having "no" money?!

RustyHalo's picture

BM quit her job. BIG SURPRISE!

This woman is absolutely incapable of supporting herself. She's one of the most irresponsible adults I have ever met. We allowed SD10 to sign up for an after-school fun activity for five Tuesdays (our day) and we paid the $15 for her. SD8 wanted to sign up for a Wednesday activity (BM's day) and we told her she would have to talk to BM about that and that BM would have to pay for it. Money needed to be turned in by today. FH got a call from BM this morning saying that she would not have the money for this because she quit her job.

Unbelievable ...

dogmom's picture

My husband and I just got this letter from his daughter. I am at a loss for words.
How do you deal with this?
She writes:
Dear Pap and (Dogmom),
I just got back from my trip which was great, but am to be honest
very irritated annoyed and angry at both of you as I hear some story
regarding your visit at (my sister's) and I think it's time for me to
clear the air and tell the perhaps brutally truth. Yes I am in an
emotianal and agry state as I write this, but frankly I do not give a

almost time...

passleft's picture

well...it's almost Halloween which means i will officially become a stepmother. and a wife...hahaha maybe that should be my first point. i know this is going to be the most difficult thing i will ever do in my life. i get sick to my stomach thinking about it. but, i am strong willed, so perhaps i can make it.

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