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Hi, just thought I'd write my first blog on here and get some things off my chest. DH and I have been married for 9 years (together for 10 yrs.) I posted before about his 2nd ex-wife wanting me to leave so their kids can meet mine (their half sisters). Of course once I put my foot down with DH the subject gets dropped...sort of. Just a week ago I noticed that some friends and family were getting weird e-mails that were sent from our e-mail address. I checked our sent files to see if it showed in there. It didn't, we changed passwords on everything just in case.
So DH isn't around, and so for about the 3rd time ever, I got to communicate with the Ex but making it look like it comes from him of course! This means spelling errors and typos included on purpose! 
Well tonight when my husband got home from work, I ran through the days events for him. I had no sooner got done telling him the baby (11 mo) had been up most of the night and had been "out of sorts" all day, and I believed him to be a bit constipated. As soon as I get this all out the baby started to fuss a bit and hubby says "ohhh, quit your whining" in a loud, gruff voice. I reminded him of what I just got done saying and asked why he always yells at him especially when I just got done saying he doesn't feel good?
This is just a quick nightly post for all the ladies on here tonight.....BM stresses us out so much and is at times so irritating, i wanted to pose this question....How do you relieve yourself of the stress from BM...
okay me first...SEX WITH DH...COME ON LADIES DO TELL...I MAKE ONE...LOL
I just wanna reach through the phone and strangle BM right now. DH told BM on Sunday when he dropped off SS that Tuesdays would be the only day he could talk to his son coz Wed & Thur he would be in class (online college courses)...So he called tonight and she started in on DH about the arrears. He told her he was waiting on his consultant money. Then she asked, "And then you'll be sending it in to child enforcement?" I wanted to say, "NO, we're going on a vacation to get away from your stupid ways!" DUH.
I know I am posting a lot here and my posts are all too long but I have almost 11 years of garbage to get off my chest, and it is so nice to bounce around here with people whom have been there and done that. I just have had some extra time to myself which I am using to post the things that come to me that I have been wanting to talk about. I have felt so awful and alone keeping these feelings about SKIDS, BM and in laws in for so long.
So BF wants to get involved with the local ice hockey team doing stats. Home games are sometimes two nights in a row, Friday and Saturday. When these fall on his visitation weeks he seems to think that the 2 kids and I (6 and 7) will merrily just go to the game and watch. We wouldn't get to watch with him as he'd be off doing something else. He doesn't seem to get the fact that 1. that takes away from his limited time with his kids (he gets them only every other weekend) and 2... I AM NOT HIS BABYSITTER!
I feel like I need to "check" myself with you all. So Fiance and I are getting married Jan. 2011, been engaged 2 months, been together for over a year. DF and BM have been divorced 3 years. Scooty (SD5) started humming "here comes the bride"...silly me I was thinking she may be humming it for me (she loves that me and her daddy are getting married, she talks about it all the time). She said "no, mommy said thats what they played when she and my daddy got married, and she wore a white dress".
I am so glad I found this site because I have 10 years of stuffed feelings and no where to go with them but yet I still feel bad talking about my issues with these people in my life. I especialyl feel bad because BM and I are trying to keep the peace. We can be "friendly" sometimes but at the same time I have no respect for her. I jsut give her respect because I have to. So our "friendliness" feels fake and phony. I am faking for the sake of peace in my home.
For the longest time I wasn't doing SD7's laundry as a sort of sign of protest and doing only the things I absolutely had to do for her because she never shows any appreciation for anything I do. The last few times I've done her laundry because I felt bad that DH would have to do it after having a busy day at work. After doing SD's laundry yesterday I left the folded clothes on her bed for her to put away, which I always do. I assumed this meant she put them away before going to bed last night. I went in her room today and saw the clean shirts just lying on the floor!
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