From reading posts on here I see that alot of BM's are the same. I understand that some BM's feel that they are ENTITLED to whatever they can get, but good grief why try and break the bank so you can one day get NOTHING!!! It really doesn't make sense to me. If DH is paying support ON TIME EVERY SINGLE MONTH plus covers insurance, why ask for more? If Skids are loved in both homes by both SETS of parents then why in the world would you continue to try and throw a wrench into the situation?????? I am a BM and a SM and just don't get it.

I seriously don't want FH to come home tonight just so I tell HIS kids that he went out with his buddies today and got screwed up and didn't come home. I will say that I was out with him earlier in the day but I had my lil bro and his girlfriend babysitting for HIS kids but I made sure I was home in time to tuck HIS kids in bed AND make their lunches. I'm REALLY irritated right now cuz he was supposed to be home right after me but now it's 4 hours later and he still isn't home...

So apparently BM called last Tuesday asking if we could help pay the medical bills for SS12 for breaking his fingers...and DH didn't tell me she called. I saw it on the phone bill. It was only a 2 min convo so I asked why she called and why he didn't tell me. He says cause I'll just get mad. Moron. He told her no he couldn't help and if she didn't like the bills she should have kept Tricare prime (no copays or out of pocket costs) and driven to the right doctor instead of switching to tricare standard (closer doctors but its a cost sharing plan).

but my skids just woke up and they are being really cute. My mom is staying with us and they get up early and she's in the living room and they are trying really hard to be quiet and not wake her up. They're like different kids from a year ago!!!