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Its finally over...SD moved out yesterday...I was able to outlast her...

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So she packed up and left with nothing to say to DH while I was at work. DH tried to act ok but I knew better. He asked if we could go to his favorite diner up the street for dinner and then we went for a late night shopping trip at Walmart. Now we live in small town and there is only one Walmart shared by three small towns in the area. This always cheers him up because he sees the weirdos that come out and it sorta makes you feel classier..LOL! We actually saw a guy picking his teeth with an ornament hook that was still attached to the ornament...OMG!!!!

SD has to cause chaos every day until she leaves apparently...

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Last night I came home from dropping my DD12 at church and caught SD17 in our room looking through our stuff! I was furious to say the least and asked her what the freak she thought she was doing? She said she needed a bandaid and pointed to the one on her arm. Then she halled ass up to her room. Well DH was taking his final exams last night so I couldn't call him. When he got home I was furious and told him what she did. He goes upstairs to her room to confront her on his own and she denies the whole thing ever happened and said I was a liar. OMG...I was so ticked.

She bought her own one way ticket out but blames DH and me...

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So I get home from work and apparently SD had already started in with DH. She dropped her cell phone in a puddle after school and demanded DH take her to purchase another one immediately. He told her to just let it dry out and it will work again. She refused and demanded that he take her to the store to get new one again. DH stood his ground and said no. SD throws a hissy fit. Then she says she is moving out with MIL but will sleep at a friends house during the week to go to school. So DH tells her she has until such and such date to get out.

Happy Birthday SD or NOT!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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So Saturday is SD's 18th birthday and according to her the day she is going to tell us to shove it and move out. Unlike all the past ten birthdays I have purchased NOTHING, I havn't even bought her a card, I have planned no festive party and I won't be baking a cake. WHY you ask? I disengaged about 6 months ago and this is her dad's responsibility. I would like to see what he comes up with if anything. I am NOT reminding him either. Its his kids birthday and he needs to take care of it how he chooses. NOT MY PROBLEM.

One week to go...

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One week to go until SD turns 18. Its not so much her leaving that I will be silently rejoicing about. It is the end of an era...the BM's rein of terror will be over. No longer will I have to worry about what she will file in court, what lies she will tell the judge, what defense I will have to make for myself...etc. She will have no more hold on this family or my sanity. I can tell her to go straight to hell and not worry about what retaliation in court will happen. As a matter of fact, I think the clerks at the court house will be doing a happy dance that BM's case is officially over.

How did you guys explain SD leaving to biokids?

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Well we are two weeks away from D-Day. DH is feeling the worst of it right now. I think he really thought that she would change so she could stay living here after she turns 18. Problem is DH has to face the fact that SD17 doesn't want to live here, so she's not going to change. She rather storm out of the house, make a big scene and tell everyone we kicked her out. I know that is how this will play out. So that brings me to my question...I don't give a rats behind what other people think, except for BD12 and BS6 who are living here.

SD off to BM's for the first time in months...

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Can everybody say yeah!!!! SD17 went to BM's for the weekend. She hasn't been there in months because when her attitude sucks, which we all know is 24/7 in SD17, mom needs a break and doesn't get her for a while. So I figure this will be the last weekend she will get her until Christmas holiday. The downside to this would be that BM will call my cell on Monday to vent about SD17's attitude and how it sucks and ask me how I put up with it all the time. I can't believe that she actually says this crap to me.

MIL has church member send SD fruit basket...

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I am all for uplifting and support. I am a woman of faith myself but this just really ticked me off. MIL is apparently sharing SD and DH moving out situation with her church family. One of then sent SD17 a fruit basket and had it delivered to the house this weekend. OMG...I am so over the crap. First MIL crosses the line and offers SD a way out, so there is no reason for SD to heaven forbid improve her attitude and contribute to this house, now there's a concept.

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