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I'm disgruntled again about SS. I've been here 5 years. He's been living with his mom for the last 2 years. He's a spoiled 18 y/o. He comes and goes as he pleases, anytime of the night or day, takes whatever he wants from our home and has no respect for anyone or anything.
Since he's moved out we have been remolding our home room by room. I have hand picked flooring, colors, furniture, etc. The kid has no respect or appreciation for any of it.
One comment in the car and DH gets out doesn't want to go. I guess it doesn't help that I had told him I didn't want him to go especially after his attitude today. Everything is great until you call him on it. Then leaves the SS10 with the coach. I don't understand why DH has to feel like "he's in" or "he's cool". Personally I could care less what these people think about me. Not only that he's leaving at 7 am in the morning to go look at that land that he assured me he didn't have to buy, that his dad did it.
I'm so happy to know I'm not going crazy, that alot of other people are going through the same drama that I go through. I met my boyfriend a year ago. He was married and seperated for a year before I met him, his wife cheated on him and told him to leave her house and to take their oldest son (8)yr old with him and she kept the smallest son. I had just gotten divorced for about as long. Since we had so much ex drama coming from his ex and mine, we decided to move to another state together. And that's when hell broke loose.
I have been in a comitted relationship with a man who has been divorced for 2 years. I am the first woman he introduced his children to, ages 3 and 5. When I first met the children, the 5 year old instantly took to me, talked to me, sat with me, played with me. I am a firm believer in letting the children warm up to me so that they are comfortable with my presence.
Friendship comes in many shapes and sizes......so do woman's shoes.
Women wear dress shoes, casual shoes, and of course the slippers.
Dress shoes - High Heels look great when you are all dressed up, and ready for a special occasions and you are all excited. You are happy , but as the evening moves on, your old feet get tired / By the time the evening is over and you get home, you just can't wait to put those shoes back in the closet. The old feet hurt some, well not some, they hurt a lot if dancing was part of your evening and it is usually in mine..
I will be part of the decision-making process in my marriage and family at all times.
People outside the immediate family - including ex-wives, in-laws and adult children - cannot make plans that affect my life without my consent.
I will not be responsible for the welfare of children for whom I can set no limits.
I must be consulted about which children will live with us, when they can visit and how long they will stay.
I will not be solely responsible for housework; chores will be distributed fairly.
Snow and ice caused school to get out early. Out of respect and safety, I called DH to tell him I would be home early. "I want you to know I really love you," he said. I was in a crowded hallway of kids who had just found out school was dismissing, so I told him I couldn't talk.
When I got home, he reached out to hug me. I let him. But hugs and sorry don't fix me that easy. I am hurt. I took a bubble bath and a nap. Know I'm ready to face him and see what he has to say for himself today...
Hi Everyone!!!! I am new to this site.I am 24 yrs old and have a SD7 and BS1! I have been reading the post's for the last few days and I think every single one of ouy are amazing Step mothers!!!!! It is one of the hardest jobs ever! I can relate to so many of you guys, and you guys supposrt each other so much! This is really what I need to be apart of! Hope to talk to you all soon!!!!
I have been with DH for 3 years. In those 3 years I have gotten 2 gifts from him: a Marilyn Monroe crystal and my engagement ring. Now I am not ungrateful for these things and the things he has done for me, but every holiday and birthday I get him a gift. This Valentine's Day I bought him a ring with our initials on the inside and 'Love Cherish Honor Forever" on the outside. I spent over 100 bucks for it. Wednesday night I get home and he says he has something to show me and brings out a small jewelry box. Naturally I got excited.
Last night, DH told me he thought our son and myself should leave. He sees me as the problem- not his lack of parenting.
After a night on the couch, I woke up to find the snow storm was not keeping me home from work. I do my best thinking in the shower. I have decided I need a break of some sort. I am waiting for my sister in law to call back and let me know if the bunk house on their ranch is available. If he wants me gone, why wait till summer?
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