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So due to all of the events that happened over Xmas and the vaca. I was just a little upset that she still thought it wise to have her new son give our son a Xmas present. Sure they are close in age and get along well. And we have even tried to let them be friends. So SD could maybe have a better realtionship with everyone. But when she sent a present with a note that said "I wish you could come play I know you cant and because you are my sisters brother we can be friends." (she wrote it dictated ny a 5 yr old.)
I moved here from across the country to get married to DH. I LOVE SD and would do ANYTHING for her. She is a well behaved sweet darling 9 year old. We split custody with BM. The problem is....
Does BM always have this bizarre issue with SS's clothing?
She is always saying, I want his shirt back, I want his pants, where's his hat?! Where's his jacket?!
She does the same thing to his teacher and to his daycare
When we get him we wash the clothes he came in and return him in the clothes aside from the mis-matched dirty socks/underwear and t-shirts, we send him back in our matching socks, clean undershirts and underwear.
So Bf and I are still planning on moving in together. after our long talk he really understood where I was coming from RE the Morning wake up routine. He feels it is necessary that we have OUR special time in the bedroom, That he never did that when he was a kid, and really doesnt know many that allow that behavior.
So over the last week BM has been asking BF how much tires would cost at his work. He told her and she said that was too much. End of story? Of course not. I guess yesterday while BF and I were with his daughter BM went to a junk yard and bought some tires. When she comes to pick up SD1 she asks BF how much will it cost if I bring the tires up to get them put on at your work? BF who previously said that she was on her own for any car work, he was not going to do any of it for her and if he did he would kill her on charges, says, just bring them up I will do them for free. WTF? A 360?
Hello everyone. I am new to this site, joined because my wife is on. I just wanted to thank everyone on here, because you give my wife support (and entertainment), when I am away from home on business. I could not imagine life without her, so, knowing that she has an outlet with people in similar situations, and hearing the stories everyday, makes me very happy to know that she belongs to such a group. I wish that everyone could know how special she is, genuine, warm hearted, caring and beautiful.
I need SS12 out of my home, I don't know wether to tell SS12 to pack up and get out or tell his BM to take him. What do you think?
I have a 9 year old SD who came to live with us in Aug. 09 due to her BM schedule and I cant take it! The problem isnt her, its me and I dont know what to do. My SD is such an excellent kid and I know she loves me so much but I cant stand her sometimes, well pretty much all the time and its totally unprovoked! I have days where I love her and want to be around her and then other days where I cant even look at her. I have been dealing with these feelings since the first day I met her 6 years ago.
Ok so my 14SD has a very bad habit of slamming doors amongst her famous words such as, "I know, I will and I can't". All of which she has uttered today.
Today is my birthday, and today I leave for a cruise...well was suppose to hours ago...but here I sit on the internet...duh whats wrong with me....... The his ex texts today that the bengals jersey we got his 10 year old is of a player that at one point got a DUI and she is not allowing her to wear it. The tennis shoes we bought her are too small all the clothes before school started...haven't seen since.......driving me freaking crazy...I work hard for my money.
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