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So, my SB17 has been accepted to state college and now the financial part needs to be worked out. I thought all along that is was BM and BF that are responsible for the paperwork that determines parental obligation and what she can borrow... I mean we just married in November.. it never even occurred to me I would have to fork over a sime for her schooling... WELL not true, if custodial parent remarries.. the new spouse must submit his or her taxes, savings and banking statements as well to determine the student's needs.
BM brought over SD10's uniform last night. FH and I were out to dinner with friends and we left all kids at home. We got home pretty late and saw the soccer stuff on the table. The skids told us their mom dropped it off around 7:00 pm.
Hi everyone!!! i have a question. why is it everytime bf have some type of issue with bm he always takes it out on my.. or start acting rude towards me... he is a good man to me. but when he starts acting stupid.. i know he probably has just talked to her or their has been something wrong.like her calling asking for money or something stupid. for example.. yesterday she text him telling him that its about time that ss doesnt need the car seat anymore... who doesnt know that..??? anyways...bf wants nothing to do with her... everytime ss is with us we take good care of him...
At therapy yesterday, my therapist assigned me to do one thing a day for the next month that would be about ME and make ME happy.
Well, hell! I haven't thought about myself in so long, I'm at a loss. I can't think of anything!
If given that "assignment," what would you do?
I have a question ladies, and I am wondering if I missed something along the way, in a post I didn't read, or whatever.
Whilst SD was at a party last night me and my bf went for a nice cosy meal at a pub. Half way through said meal BM rang to tell bf where to pick up SD, thought that would be end of conversation but as soon as she heard we were having dinner she into detail about the Cats she has and how one of them wet itself in the house. I thought it was going to last a good half hour and bf dinner would be cold, I could blood pressure rising and annoyance at her interupting our dinner together - one of the few time we can get together. bf saw look in my eye and cut the conversation short.
BM is returning the paperwork Monday to the Lawyer to be filed. BF is now going to be Custodial Parent! The kids are still doing ok, they have been a bit more rebellious, but I have been home a lot these last 2 weeks and both my kids and his kids are doing chores!
It does kill me... he says, "have the kids do the dishes...don't worry about them" then does not have the kids do the dishes. Then complains when they don't get done.
Sigh, no rest for the weary.
I had to take my baby girl to emergency tonight because she was running a high fever. I called her doctor and he said to take her to the hospital. Everything is okay. The doctor said to give her some tylenol and lots of fluids. Hopefully she will sleep through the night as usual so she feels a bit better in the morning.
BM and her hubby came to get one of the skids tonight. I stuck to my disengagement plan from her and her drama, and "hid" in the bathroom the whole time she was here! I now have a lovely new pedicure, and sculpted eyebrows!
SS14 was going for the weekend. She was irritated SD17 had to work, and she hasn't seen SS15 since Christmas, so she and her hubby came in for a bit to sit with the other two kids and catch up with them about school and stuff.
Well after so much consideration and my stepd being gone for 2 months I have considered letting her come back home since my husband left a month after to take care of her because she's from another country. He did just sign a 6 mos lease on an apt that he'll be living with her there .
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