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This is my first time doing this... my first time blogging, and my first time being in this situation. I am 23 years old. I grew up believing in fairy-tales and romance. My parents are still together, so are my grandparents who act as my second parents. I have 2 wonderful little sisters whom I would anything for. One is 20 and the other is 15. Needless to say, I have an extremely close family.
My smooth Saturday has turned into a smooth Sunday. A week of bliss and harmony? I could get used to this...
We just went threw the courts and got a regular set up of parenting time. It has only been in effect for a little over a month. We were schedualed to have sd on the first saturday of april. BM text my husband and says well you cant have her those weeks the court order will be changed because i am moving back to Michigan on easter permently. She has to have permision to leave the state but she is saying because she is moving back to the origanl state that she does not and there is nothing he can do about it. She is moving and that is that.
Just watched the Oscars for 2009 and was thrilled to see one of my favorite actresses and step-mom, Sandra Bullock win Best Actress. To my delight, she dedicated her Oscar to "the moms that take care of the babies and the children no matter where they come from."
I felt like that includes step-moms, as well as adoptive parents, and it was wonderful to have us step-parents recognized and thanked by such a wonderful actress in front of such a large audience. Awesome!
I met my husband 10 years ago. I was 19 and he was 35. We was seperated from his wife and had a 18 month little boy and a 3 year old little girl. We fell in LOVE hard and now have been married almost 7 years. We have a 5 year old little boy, 2 1/2 year old little boy and another boy due in about 5 weeks. My stepdaughter is now 13 and stepson 11. I LOVE being a mother more than anything in this whole world, but cannot say the same about being a stepmother. I look back and feel I was so young when I feel in love with my husband. I was 22 when we got married.
I am so frustrated with SD14! If you have read my other posts, you know that we have been having trouble with her lying to us and sneaking around behind our backs with a very dangerous boy that has threatened to kill her before. We took control of the situation (at least that is what we think) and she is now grounded from any social activities for a month, has lost all of her allowance and babysitting money for a month, and has given all of her internet logins and passwords to us (that we know of).
BF picked up the skids for March Break on Friday night. He takes them to his mom's so when we talk on the phone each night we don't say much because they can hear. Last night we went out with friends and I asked how things went on Friday.
well its been one year living with bf and his 7yrold girl and 12yr old gil. lately im not to happy. I cleaned house on my day off. dust, vaccum,clean bathrooms scrub sinks toilets sweep mop. I had all done by 930am after i got girls off to school. bf worked 5am to 2pm monday threw fru this week. later in day i go up stairs trash on the bathroom floor behind trash can at side, girls cleaned up room a bit. next day 12 year old has friend over so three girls at kichen table stuff that was in chair 7yr old stuff thrown on floor.
Lazy Boye opted not to go to his mother's this weekend. Loghead totally ignored this, but I let it slide. PITA decided he was tired of seeing Loca Grande spend all her tax return money on his siblings, so he "made up" with her. She came and got him this afternoon and took him to dinner, movie and shopping. Princess is lazing after work with her boyfriend, Stepping Stone.
I am doing it. I am finally packing up and going...I can't take the stress anymore. FMIL is so crazy she is wrecking everything. FH and I have sat down with her several times and told her we are saving up to move - we want what is best for the girls. But she asks for money - we give it to her because we are under her roof. We buy groceries and everything else. Living there is NOT benefiting us at all. It is impossible to save up. That is it.
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